I did this to myself. Took off my underwear at the end of my day yesterday. I needed to just make one quick stop by a client's building where he was taking a dance class. I drive a SUV for work and I had on a skirt that hit my knees, but it rode up. I took a call and was completely involved in the call, opened the door to my car, my skirt had rode up and I put one foot on the running board and stayed in that position whilst thinking. A guy pulled up in a call beside, turned beat red and ONLY when he was walking awy did I realize what had happened. End? NO! Went in to see client, try to get me to do a dance, then thrust this same guy in front of me for a tango. Holy cow. My god. And this guy knows my client. I am horrified. This guy will be at a meeting coming up. How in the world do I handle this. I cannot believe I flashed him. Horrible. Note to ladies: if you haven't worn those cute undies in the drawer for a while, don't wonder why, toss them!
2006-12-12 01:10:57 · 4 answers · asked by donewiththismess 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
The only way this should be embarrassing is if there was intent. Obviously there was not, nor was there any reason for him to think or regard it otherwise. Were I you I should make no reference to it, nor would I even acknowledge it. Humans make mistakes, and only humans would feel the need to apologize or explain. I have found that usually explanations only worsen the matter and apologies tend to infer blame. It is understandable that the situation will and could be awkward, however the explanation would be equally so. So it's best to forget it and realize there isn't a single person on this planet that hasn't created for themselves an embarrassing situation. Don't worry I still have respect for you.
2006-12-12 01:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by Tom H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it, Past is past, get on with the present, there's no need to mention it to that guy, no need to apologise. Just pretend as if nothing has happened. Don't bring up the matter infront of him. But if he does mention it, then say that it was just an accident and you realised it very late. Also tell him not to mention it to other's adding the fact that it would be really embarrasing for you if he does !
2006-12-12 09:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by Goutam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can go and clearly apologize to the guy before the meeting, let him know the situation and see where it falls in, and that it was just a(n) odd situation!
Hope this helped?!
2006-12-12 09:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by Beau Young 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and this guy are single, once you get past the embarrassment, maybe it will be a story you will tell your grandchildren...er, maybe not tell them. We all have embarrassing situations. This too shall pass.
2006-12-12 09:15:49 · answer #4 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋