Firstn pregnancy and I just miscarried... anyone go on to have a successful pregnancy??

Question

I miscarried over the weekend... and still in shock... the whole time something felt off... but I am desperate to know how many people have had miscarriages and then go on to have successful pregnancys... I am scarred bc this was our first pregnancy that there is something wrong with me... I go to the doctor today... but just wanted to hear personal experiences... thank you

Answer 1

Oh sweety first of let me how sorry I am for your loss. Yes you can go on to have a successful pregnancy but I know right now it doesn't seem like it. I had a miscarriage Dec 26Th 2001 and went on to get pregnant in March 2002 and delivered a healthy baby girl in November of 2002. It's very common for women to lose their first and then go on to have healthy babies. I also delivered a healthy boy Jan 2006. Good Luck and once again I'm sorry for your loss.

Answer 2

Well hun I actually mmiscarried in on Aug 20 '06 and became pregnant again on Sept 5 '06 I didnt know I was pregnant until I was already 9 weeks and so far my pregnancy is going great, also my baby sister miscarried in '05 early in the year and turned around and gave birth to a healthy little girl in Jan of '06 sometimes there is something wrong with the fetus and that is why the body miscarries dont blaim yourself I've miscarried twice but so far so good. I know it can be heartbreaking but when your body knows that your ready it will give you a healthy strong baby I have a few family members who have gone thru miscarriages and have gone onto having healthy children. Just allow it to happen naturally dont push it or try to force a new pregnancy, my newest pregnancy happened while the father and I were just tryin to help each other deal with the miscarriage so I believe it comes down to Gods plan he will give you your angel when he believes it is time..Good Luck and I am so very sorry for your loss..

Answer 3

I miscarried 3 years ago with my first at around 6-7 weeks. Im now 17 weeks pregnant and all is going well. There is absolutely no reason u can't have a healthy pregnancy 2nd time around, 90% of pregnancies after miscarriage go without a hitch. Good luck to you

Answer 4

Yes..most women go on to have normal pregnancies. Myself included. I miscarried triplets at 15 weeks last December and I am now almost 36 weeks along with one very healthy and active baby girl. My friend had one miscariage, one healthy baby, two more miscarriages and just gave birth 2 weeks ago to healthy baby #2!
Miscarriage is very common. It can happen for so many reasons yet it can also happen for no reason at all. In most cases, it is the body's way of rejecting a chromosonal abnormality. Just keep in mind that this pregnancy did not work out because you were meant to have the perfect baby. Your time will come.
In the meantime, if you want to try and concieve again...continue to take your prenatal vitamins, drink plenty of water and get some rest. I would suggest waiting a few months though. They say that you can start again with your next cycle, but it takes your body about 4-6 weeks to get it's hormones back to normal and you should also give yourself some emotional time to heal. It only took us about 3-4 months to concieve again.
My heart goes out to you as I know that this is a very painful experience...but don't get discouraged and try to remain positive. You want you body and mind to be in top shape for your next pregnancy.
Good luck and hang in there!

Answer 5

I went on to have a very successfull pregnancy. Granted I was scared throughout but I have a wonderful daughter to show for it.

You will be okay. I promise you. It happens to alot of women. Far more than one would think! Just give it time and I know this sounds cliche but you will get preggo when the time is right! Trust me! I know i hated hearing that.

If you ever need to talk, talk to your family, I am sure that they will understand that you need to talk.

I got pregnant again roughly four months after I miscarried. Had my daughter on the 30th of october.

I felt miserable up until I came to terms with the fact that no there was nothing that I could have done to prevent what happened. Rather I did all that was possible. Sometimes you just can't avoid it.

You will be fine!

Answer 6

My heart breaks for you. I MC back in April 2005 at 10 weeks. That was so hard since I just went in for a sono and there was no heartbeat. It ended in a D & C. In Aug 2005 I again MC at 6 weeks. I was thinking the samething you were and I had so many questions. I am not 38 weeks pg and going strong. I was told that there could be many reasons why. I am a HIGH RISK and at 1st I was watched every week. When I found out I was pg this time the doctor put me on extra folic acid and progestrium pills. You might ask your doctor to do a MC evaluation. Good Luck and please keep your head up. Really everything happens for a reason.

Answer 7

First off I'm so sorry to hear this. I miscarried the first time I become preg at the age 21..I got preg again a few years later and had a tubal about a year after that I got preg again I had a normal pregnancy but had trouble with delivery I had a c section about a year after that I got preg again and had a tubal 6 months later I had a tubal again.about 7 months later I was pregnant again .I whent into labor at almoat 6 months i was on bed rest at the hospital and finaly 10 in a half weeks eary I had my daughter she weighed 3 lbs got down to 2 pounds.She ended up alright.I got preg again six months later and had a tubal. I lost the tube.im trying still to have a baby.wish me luck and please pray for me I will do the same for you.

Answer 8

I had my first child in 2000. I had a miscarriage in 2004. Then I had my 2nd child in 2005. I am currently 18 weeks pregnant and due in May 2007.
Sometimes a women's body just can't handle the pregnancy, due to many factors. Trust in God and it will happen when its the right time. My miscarriage happened right before my job was outsourced and then I wasn't able to find another job, and we had to move in with my father. Then my husband got a promotion at work and I found out that I was pregnant at Thanksgiving. God works in mysterious ways and he knows when the time is right.

Good Luck.

Answer 9

I miscarried in November 2004 at 101/2 weeks. I was told to wait 2 cycles and try again. It took me until February of 2005 but I concieved and had a perfectly healthy little boy in October 2005. I am currently pregnant with my second child, we got lucky this time and concieved our first try. Just had my 12 week appointment and heard the little heartbeat yesterday. I am due with number 2 in June of 2007 and everything looks to be going well with this one.

Don't forget to grieve for your lost little one. I know it sounds wierd, but I didn't and then one day 2 months later when I was with my pregnant friend I just broke down. It's all part of the healing process.

Answer 10

My first pregnancy was a miscarriage and I know have two girls and one on the way. Everything will work out for you. Good luck