she is getting them done on friday she used to be a c cup until she lost weight now she is less than an a cup she is going back to a c cup. i myself dont like breast implants but i cant blame her i probably would want to get them done to.well any way friday night her fiance is going to a christmas party w/his mom in which thay will be drinking alot so they will be staying in a hotel and my daughter asked me to stay with her to take care of her and my husband says im not her fiance can.by they way my husband hates him.so she has no one to take care of her what should i do?
2006-12-12 01:02:05 · 24 answers · asked by pixie_kisses@verizon.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ugh...that seems like a really sticky situation, regardless of whether or not her finace should be taking care of her (i think he should) but if hes not going to, i dont think you can just leave her to herself. No matter what your husband thinks either, someone has to help take care of her, and if her finace wont then i think you should.
2006-12-12 01:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her fiance is going out drinking with his mother at a Christmas party. That seems weird.
Her fiance refuses to skip the party to take care of his future wife. That seems wrong.
Your daughter is getting breast implants at 19. Well, she's an adult and you don't mention your paying for them. It seems vain.
They are engaged to be married. That seems young. What about college?
Here's a thought. Maybe she could reschedule the surgery. It's not like postponing it will hurt anything but her ego.
Also, I think your husband is smarter than you give him credit for. That being said, if her future husband won't be a real man then you should be a real mother and be there for her.
2006-12-12 01:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not comprehend what your boobs are going to do sizewise in case you shed extra pounds. provided that you're 15 and your body is coming up nevertheless, and the actual incontrovertible reality that you recommend on dropping a set of weight, if to procure implants now that they'd seem as if absolute **** by the time you're 18. the area will be incorrect, sizing will be off, and that that they'd purely seem pretend and undesirable. do not hardship about your boob length, be healthful, and let your body be certain it truly is progression. in case you hate what you've once you're 18+.... somewhat even on your 20's will be a significantly better idea, then pondering surgical treatment would look proper, now it purely sounds like an somewhat unfavorable decision.
2016-11-25 22:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by wiltshire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u are not her fiancee, but u are her Mother. Why should your daughter suffer because of his actions. Of course u should be there for your daughter, no doubt at all. I think the fiancee is being quite selfish and cold not to be there for her, and I hope that isn't a sign of how he will be in the future when she needs him by her side. I am also the mother of a 19 year old daughter and I know I couldn't stand back and leave her alone when she needed help just to spite someone else.
2006-12-12 01:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go take care of your daughter. Regardless of how your husband feels about the man she is choosing to marry she will ALWAYS be your child. As for the breast implants if they make her feel better about herself I say she should go for it as long as its not to please someone else. I am sure she knew when his Christmas party was and she could have if she wanted to scheduled her implation on another day but did not. He doesn't have to change his plans to take care of her especially if she was aware of the date of this party and she chose to have them done then knowing she'd not be able to attend and needed someone to be with her to help her. If my husband ever told me that I could not go take care of my child REGARDLESS of her age I don't think he'd be walking around conscious right now I'd knock him out my children come first no matter how old they are.
2006-12-12 01:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not going to help take care of her after surgery than I hope she doesn't give him rights to her new breasts... I dont know him or your husband but Dad sounds like he has good reasons for not liking this guy. I completely agree with him that it is wrong for him to not stick by her side, especially being her main supporter in the surgery, but you have to put that aside and help her because it is not her fault that he is treating her like crap, however she is allowing him to by staying with this guy but that is besides the point.... I honestly don't see someone doing something this extreme to their body if they didn't have a part in wanting to do it themselves...unless she has really really low self-esteem. So I say you should help her....Go0d Luck! :o)
2006-12-12 01:34:08 · answer #6 · answered by ღ♥ Katie ♥ღ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she should marry him!!!! Hes already trying to control her. If he doenst want her with her mother so you can take care of her while hes out partying,,i would tell him to go fry his ***,,and go be with YOUR daughter no matter what he says. Your husband has his reasons for not liking him. Just from what you have said here he sounds like the wrong guy for your daughter...but i know theres nothing you can do to change her mind from marrying him. Sadly.
2006-12-12 01:22:24 · answer #7 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT! This sounds like a sad situation. A 19 year-old getting breast implants? But she is an adult. Who is paying for them?
I would urge your daughter to have a talk with her fiance. It is his place to be there with her. However, if he refuses then yes I would be there for her.
2006-12-12 01:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by avalonlee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself this, she's of age, she is getting married. If she can't use her own head now, what later.
There's nothing you can do about it. You can be there for her, at least you'll be able to care fore her. Tell your hubby that. Other then this, you'll have to stay out of her business.
As for you wanting implants at your age, remember, more then a mouthful is to much, Confucius says.
2006-12-12 01:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a christmas party is more important than staying home with her and taking care of her then their relationship already has a problem. I would talk to him and tell him that she is going to need him home!!!!
2006-12-12 01:04:30 · answer #10 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋