2006-12-12 00:58:57 · 17 answers · asked by Orditz 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Technique. Two-thirds of a man’s sexual system is inside his body, not on the outside. Lot of men are obsessed with their penises, even if they don't realize it. One sure thing is that the size has no relation to sexual pleasure or performance.
2006-12-14 21:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kedar 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There are people addicted to size and will not be satisfied by anything else. This is a learned and/or preferential behavior. Just like some str8 guys can't get it up unless the girl has DDD implants, some bent guys won't consider relations with anything less than a 10 x 6. My one hypothesis, however, is the guys requireing the 10 x 6 have sex so often, that they need the stimulus from a large tool. The body's sensitivity can be deadened by doing somehting too often and too repeatedly. But that is only part of it. I am sure there is more to it.
People can be the complete opposite as well, where emotional factors and how the person as a whole makes them "feel" during sex v. the diameter of the rod. I do conclude, however, that techinique is important no matter what. Knowing what turns your partner on, and how to acheive it, is probably more important than anything else.
I know you want a definitive answer either way, but like with all things in the world, there are spectra of preferences and behaviors.
As to size in and of itself, I think there is a range of usability. Things the diamter of beercans should be left only to the people who have made it their life's mission to shove, well, rather large objects up there.
Personally, I have never seen a 3" weenee, however I have talked to guys who said they have encountered them. 3" would limit the kind of activities a wide range of people enjoy, but I'm sure I'm pising off some poor guy with a 3", so I will stop.
2006-12-12 09:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by DellXPSBuyer 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Actually, I'm going to go with neither.
What makes someone a good lover is definitely not the size of their 'equipment', nor the 'techniques' they use with it. Everybody is different in what they like, so that good ol' tried-'n'-true method that got your ex off in five minutes might not work with your new boyfriend, you know? You can read all the how-to books in the world, get personal acquaintence and knowledge of anatomy and how it functions, learn the suavest tricks in the book, all to no avail.
What makes someone a good lover is their ability to listen, take command, desire to please you, and observation. When people talk about amazing lovers, they often say things like "It was like she was pyscic, in my head- knew exactly what I wanted!". It's not because the person is, indeed, pyscic, but rather that they listen to their lovers' bodies, pay attention, and follow through. For the people too shy or unable to say "No, put your hand there! Faster, harder!", the attentive lover listens to the pace of your breathing, the little gasps, the barest movement of your body, and uses those as a guide to what you like and want. They are in control of your desire, guiding it, shaping it to its highest peak, and they care about you first and foremost.
That's just my two cents. But if it has to be between size or technique, always technique! If, for some reason, his 'equipment' is less than average, we can always pleasure him and then use a larger dildo/strap-on for me, but if he can't handle a gigantic tool, there's just no use at all.
2006-12-12 17:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are quite handsome, you don't need size that much to prove yourself. If you are not that handsome, size would probably be in handy. Technique is a must for anyone. If you don't know how to use it, you might as well get a surgery and donate it to a lesbian in need. And if you are a bottom, size and technique would not matter at all.
2006-12-12 09:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by PAXson 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are obsessed with size. I really don't understand why unless their rear end is the size of a fist naturally. Honestly, if size really matters then its the other person who has the complex. It really is about pleasing the other person, and if a big member is the only way that person thinks they can do it, then they need a reality check.
2006-12-12 09:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Waytomanyopinions! 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Technique matters, dude
2006-12-12 11:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by yusdz 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Mikey G's an idiot.......I'm told technique. But don't ask a size queen......
2006-12-12 09:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by buldawg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Technique without a doubt.....i have had big guys that hurt me, and other big guys that i couldn't get enuff of!
2006-12-12 10:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by mxmrphy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
technique. You could be as big as you want, but if you don't know how to use it, you're wasting your partner's time
2006-12-12 10:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not the size that should matter , it's what the person can do with what they got thats what matters....
2006-12-12 10:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by nygayart 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋