i went into his inbox and found flirty emails since 2 yrs ago.these emails are actually in a folder named after the gal he is flirting with and there is my folder.in one of the emails the girl writes saying that she knows he loves me although he cheated on me.what should i do?leave him?
2006-12-12 00:49:23 · 7 answers · asked by gift 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No: I wouldn't rush to any judgments, if you were married you wouldn't, why now. This is the problem when your not legally married, it's to easy to "jump" out of a commitment. This is what I believe.
I would confront him, ask him what the hecks going on. Get an answer, then make a decision but, remember, the decision you make is the one your going to have to live with, forever maybe.
Do you think maybe counseling would help, if he agreed that is?
2006-12-12 01:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard one. if he knows you have been looking at his emails he will probably do his nut, but you need to have this out with him it might just be harmless flirty i dont agree with it and if my man done it i would go mad but it may just be a bit of fun and he may have said he has cheated on you just to keep this other girl intrested. I think you need to sit him down and talk to him tell him what you have seen and see what he says. i really hope it works out if you need me you can email me. good luck hun
2006-12-12 08:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couples counseling could be necessary to recommit to one another or to get clear that it's time to move on. Certainly, he seems to be emotionally immature, but you should read
How To Be Your Own Best friend
and later, if necessary.
Rebuilding ( When Your Relationship Ends).
2006-12-12 08:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you waiting until you ask for commitment?, then he refuses and dumps you? then in your books - it means you got dumped!!
Hon, do the dumping now for the sake of your reputation.
2006-12-12 08:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Nile Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Leave him.
2006-12-12 08:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after about 3.7, 3.8 years things die down a bit.
2006-12-12 09:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by iron chef bryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his butt to the curb.
2006-12-12 08:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by AMBRASIA C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋