Well me and my girl have been on and off for about 8 months mainly because of me I've been breaking up with her mainly just little things every time she makes me mad I find take the easy way out and thats breaking up with her and I did it again yesterday. Because I asked her if she slept with anyone since we've been broken up and she said yes.and we've been broken for about 2 months and I've been trying to get back with her within that 2 months but finally we did last thursday and I guess she slept with someone within that 2 months. So I was wondering am I wrong and and should I move on?
2006-12-12 00:22:04 · 12 answers · asked by shawn305nda614 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In your question, you made it sound like your past relationship had always been in turmoil. And the fact that you were on-off in a short period of 8 months probably means something. But in the end, the fact that she slepth with someone in the 2 months is understandable to an extend. You have to think that you were the one who initiated the break up, in that time she must have been sad, depressed, confused, which may lead to inevitable things. For this reason, you must give her a chance to explain, and possibly, if you could, forgive her. As a suggestion, why not start things out as friends first, and see how things work out? If things go smoothly and you find yourselves reconciled, then it may be worth it. If not, it probably means you were not meant for each other. Take your time, do not rush into things and I wish you all the best in making a right decision!
2006-12-12 00:31:08 · answer #1 · answered by Aleckii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you're both taking scraps from each other and I'm sure both of you are better than that. I also think that you should not be upset about something that happened when you were separated. I think without saying it aloud, you have admitted that you have some growing up to do, which is perfectly fine (you didn't say your age though). It is fine, though you shouldn't involve someone else's feelings in it. Let her go; it's not fair to keep her on this yo yo. You need to learn good communication skills though. You will not have a good lasting relationship by walking out every time the going gets tough. Good luck!
2006-12-12 08:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by Melanie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats up to you. If you keep getting mad about things like that I {the girl} would move on. However, you have to remember during those two months she wasnt yours and you werent hers. You could have slept with someone too.
2006-12-12 08:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jamie G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are wrong; everytime something dosen't go your way you shouldn't back down. Oh and when she slept with someone thats her business yall weren't together so you don't have any say so in what she does. And I think she should move on cause you are not acting right. You better get it together before she moves on.
2006-12-12 08:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you can't blame her for being intimate with another guy. After all you two had broken up, right? Now that you know she's done this, I think it's better for you to forget about her and move on. I'm sure you'll find another girl. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-12-12 08:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not wrong ,not because she slept with someone else ,because this relation will never work .You gave it many times to try and I wonder how you still think another try will make it work?
move on with your life and try to find someone your type ,most important thing in a relation is to feel happy and blissful .
2006-12-12 08:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man move on she's a little floozy come on honestly do you really want to be with somone who finds it so easy to open her legs to just anyone ...?
i'm just saying they say oh i cant be judged but wrong they can be if there actions are as mundan as theirs
i mean honestly ... dud get over her find somone better you deserve somone nicer..
2006-12-12 08:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by rm4real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She CAN do that if you guys did break up during that 2 month period.
However, I'd just move on.
2006-12-12 08:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes move on. sounds like you are to immature to have a g/f. if you were broken up it isn't any of your business what she did with who. let her get on with her life and you the same.
2006-12-12 08:28:13 · answer #9 · answered by hippie_chick69love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...you shouldn't.....she should...why would she want to stay with someone who keeps dumping her over stupid stuff...no one wants to live on a roller coaster....good luck and hope she stays away from you....she deserves better
2006-12-12 08:25:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋