2006-12-12 00:15:38 · 10 answers · asked by sri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are not happy then yes it's a good idea. it's never a good idea to stay just for the kids or any other reason. you have to be happy in your life. just stay involved with kids and be civil with the ex. this will be hard but you will all get through it. best of luck to you and your family.
2006-12-12 00:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by hippie_chick69love 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First before making a decision you need to be logical.
On a sheet of paper draw a line down the middle; on one side list the pros (why you should stay), on the other list the cons (why you should divorce).
Depending on which side has the most answers decide from there.
Until then don't jump to conclusions and make hasty decisions.
2006-12-12 08:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me start off by saying... if you are being abused, by all means get out of there and get yourself a divorce. If your spouse cheated on you, then, fine, divorce is a very reasonable option.
HOWEVER, without knowing WHY you want a divorce, it is impossible for us to give you any advice. Is this something that can be worked out? Have you tried counseling? Have you talked to your pastor/minister/religious advisor? Are you giving up when there's still a chance that you could work it out? Are you just sick of the way things are going?
You made a commitment. Your vows stated that you would stay with your spouse and work things out. I suggest trying that first.
2006-12-12 08:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i was married for 12 years with 2 boys and could not take any more verbal abuse from wife so i ifled for divorce and remarried 4 yrs. later my children and i are more happy now than ever before. You will know what's right.
2006-12-12 08:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say that I wouldn't be asking for advice about that situation on here. That would have to be something that you have to figure out on your own. What you need to do is go speak with some one that is trained to help with these kinds of problems. I really don't think that people on here that don't know you or the situation could really be of any true help.
2006-12-12 08:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by M.S. Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the reason for you wanting the divorce and how old are your kids?
2006-12-12 08:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by Andie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really haven't given us enough information to give you good advice. it depends on your situation. are you being abused? are you being cheated on? are you just not happy or in love any more? it can be a good idea if you will be better off. it may not be a good idea if you are just thinking the grass is greener. only yo know the answer to these questions and only you can determine if it is a good idea or not.
good luck to you.
2006-12-12 08:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by fungirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to tell you da truth i'm only 18 and i have been marred scence i was 16 cause our parent let us and we are in college and we want childern but don't do anything that will but your family in a bad relationship!!!
2006-12-12 09:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by Problem Solver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been grown up without father because he was an alcoholic,belive me is such a hell experience,if you don't have a real reasont to blame yor husband than think of yor kids,they need him
2006-12-12 08:28:16 · answer #9 · answered by miha m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is if your not happy
2006-12-12 09:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by fire_red_fly38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋