Say you are with someone (married, bf/gf, partner, other), but yet you are a heavy flirt....but it doesn't go any further than that....do you think this person is a cheater?
I am firm on my thinking so I don't need opinions, I just want to see what the collective group thinks.
2006-12-12 00:07:53 · 29 answers · asked by I'm Loving Life 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Okay it is obvious that most say no...what if you are talking heavy sexual thoughts with someone then...
2006-12-12 00:16:26 · update #1
Thanks Blue♫Faerie, so here is the other question...is it cheating if your significant other doesn't know that you flirt a lot when they are not around?
2006-12-12 00:22:18 · update #2
Not if there is an understanding between you and your significant other. I am a total flirt, it's just something I do. But mostly I flirt with friends, and my hubby knows this and also knows that I always come home to him, basically, so that's my thought :)
2006-12-12 00:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
FLIRTING COVERS A WHOLE LOT OF GROUND.
I like to flirt but it is always just innocent Unless It is with my boyfriend and then I can really flirt.,seriously. Only with him.
I am a very friendly person and sometimes do not even realize that some people think , that is flirting. I'm a people person.
My boyfriend trusts me completely and I give him no reasons not to trust me.
If flirting causes any "bad" feelings for him or her then you should not do it.
Heavy flirting sounds very dangerous especially if the other person takes it seriously.
Be Careful. Do not cross that imaginary line between
FLIRTING AND COMING ON TO SOMEONE!
There is a BIG difference.
Good luck with this survey!!!
Very interesting!!!!!!
If you are having any not just heavy sexual thoughts then you are cheating. Lust is a sin.
Flirting to me is not a sexual thing. Maybe my idea of flirting is different from yours.
Flirting is making eye contact, smiling, going up and introducing yourself and making new friends. Nothing sexual involved at all.
If you feel the need to HIDE your Flirting from your boyfriend...IT Is wrong. Trust is one ofthe most important things in a relationship. Without it you have nothing.
2006-12-12 08:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Penny Mae 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The flirt has low self esteem and while it's not physical cheating it's emotional and mental cheating (which is more dangerous and damaging) perhaps this person doesn't deserve their partner.
Emotionally it's cheating because the couple should make their relationship stronger by flirting and giving to each other.
It weakens a relationship and shows this person has a terrible self esteem to need the attention and reasurance from others.
Happiness from the inside through high self worth lasts forever, a quick flirt will give you a 50 second thrill but will leave you cold with your own insecurities still eating at you afterwards.
You need to have a good relationship with YOURSELF before you can even TRY to have one with another person.
2006-12-12 08:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by valley_storm 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only important issue with it is how your partner feels. Does it make her uncomfortable,does she feel like she's not good enough? Is she feeling like your taking attention off her to go flirt? What are you saying when you flirt? Are you telling other women their sexy or if you were single....? This is way crossing the line. But if your just being a little flirty,like making jokes,ect than probably not but thats where the commitment comes in. Your commited. Its more important to not make her uncomfortable or feel as though she dosent measure up than it is to hit on every skirt. There are women who dont mind flirty husbands,bf's so look for one of them or stay single and flirt with everyone you want.
2006-12-12 08:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would have to say NO, because flirting for me is away of taking myself away from the grind of every day life, away to be someone I am usually not and to let my hair down and have some fun. If no one is getting hurt by it than have fun, besides I flirt with this really cute guy on Y!A all the time.
2006-12-12 08:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. D. AKA Evil Woman 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think flirting is cheating. It's just words. If things progressed beyond just words (like turns physical), then it's cheating. As long as it isn't serious (emotionally or at all physical) then I don't think so. But I'm a flirt (sometimes) and could be biased.
2006-12-12 08:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how HEAVY the flirting is. But no as a rule I don't think it's cheating, but it is disrespectful.
Even if they don't know, it's still wrong.
2006-12-12 08:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by INSANE SUGARPUFF 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think cheating is when you have affair, especially physical contacts with that someone else. But when you're flirt that's not cheating. Just keep your hands on the table :P
2006-12-12 08:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Ophelia a.k.a Mia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dnt think heavy flirting is considered cheating.. not unless u do something 2 make d flirt more realistic..
sexual thoughts is foul..
but come on, we're humans & there r tyms when we imagine things @ a different perspective...
2006-12-12 08:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
flirting/thinking about it. is NOT the same as cheating. Actions speak louder than words remember?
2006-12-12 08:12:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋