My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2dec.1MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-12 00:03:11 · 5 answers · asked by sakeena 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I think you really need to inform the police of the abusive messages that your ex boyfriend has been sending... I hope you haven't deleted them....and it also helps if the messages keep coming from the same number.
Do your parents know about this? If not get them involved so that they can ensure both your and their safety should your ex-boyfriend attempt to contact you.
I suggest you do not attempt to call, message or meet your ex boyfriend anywhere...even if you feel that he will not harm you.
Some behavioral modification may be required.
Do you think it will help if you changed your number? It may be an option if you know he cannot get the new number....
2006-12-12 00:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by eyeneva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him ot the curb.If he ever abused oyu then after the first time you should have given up on him.He is a useless jerk.No man has the right to physically abuse a woman.I agree with the person above me, report him.I dont care what he says about missing you he is crap.You can do better.
2006-12-12 00:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by lumpydonut21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is abusing you like that it is a crime, report him to the poilce, change your moblie number or he will not stop, if you give him attention and text him back you are falling for the wanker you are playing into his hands dont text him back, if you dont have the guts to report him get a new moblie number, but i suspect you are just as bad as he is because you are a attention seeker as well, i just dont understand why you would text him back if he abuse's you like you say, there is always two side's to a story
2006-12-12 00:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by rusty red 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep asking the same question? many people including myself has advised you to steer clear of him and to contact the police, yet you don't heed our replies.are we wasting our time ? for the last time CHANGE YOUR PHONE NUMBER.
2006-12-12 06:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does miss you and was just jealous seeing you dancing w/ another guy... guys hated it when we deflate their ego and i think that's what you did when he caught you dancing w/ another guy. but then i think he's putting down his pride and si trying to get you back... if you (still)love him then try giving him a second chance
2006-12-12 00:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋