having an affair with someone you know- maybe from work, church or the gym? I know a lot of women have morales and they would never cheat, but please, I only want to hear from the less judgmental women only.
2006-12-12 00:02:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes! i think fantasizing is healthy. keeps some zest in the bedroom. i don't imagine my husband is someone else, he is the only man for me. but, sometimes, you just see a person, and wow! can't help but wonder. i tell my mate these things and we have fun talking and teasing each other about them. i think it is a form of foreplay. hope that helps your curiosity. most women DO fantasize........
2006-12-12 01:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by anna s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe I am the odd ball woman on here. Yes, I do fanatize but my fantasies involve my husband. What I fanatize about is being in different places while "being" together.
Now, before my husband and I were together I was in a serious relationship with another guy and I did fantasize then. Here is the weird part though... my fantasies then were about my boss at Pizza Hut. Who just happens to be my husband now.
So the way I see it I don't have to fantasize because my fantasy came true.
2006-12-12 00:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by M.S. Mom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not married, but I do know that women often fantasize about other men, but they keep it inside their head. A married woman may have dreams of another man that's never going to happen in real life; but some married men have fantasies that they chase, and often end up cheating.
2006-12-12 00:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not married (but I was at one time). I am, however, in a committed relationship. I've never fantasized about being with another man. The one I am with is all that I want.
That's not to say that I don't fantasize. But my fantasies all revolve around my bf.
2006-12-12 00:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for years and I am very happy, but if I meet a hottie at work or wearever I fantasize about them. That doesn't mean that I'm going to do anything.
2006-12-12 00:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I used to fantasize when I was younger (I am now 45) but not so much any more. I think it is human nature to have fantasies. It does not mean you will necessarily act upon them.
2006-12-12 00:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but they usually involve women. There are no males that I know that I fantasize about.
2006-12-12 00:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a humanist I don't look at people like that and would be greatly offended if any of my friends compromised our friendship. Beauty lies within each of us. Beauty is something both men and women should behold and share. IMO friendship is valuable...sex is between husband and wife. When one marries they should not stop caring for others - that suggestion oppresses and oppression causes division. We all know what division - no matter what the subject causes.....war.
The Bible (God's gift) teaches us to love one another. It also teaches us what happens when oppression occurs.
I have seen liturature in my church written with distaste against woman ...to make it short the subject was the length of a woman skirt etc. If read with wisdom moreso suggests that men are souly defined as nothing but sex addicted maniacs - weak with "lust". This suggests horrible things to woman about men in general. A man wrote this piece of liturture and I feel very bad for men who read this as it does insult a man's intelligence. Not to mention women - See what happens when we start this man against woman thing? If one must write ......let's just share how exciting fellowship is and since the church is God's bride let all dress for the occassion in what is considered to be one's personal best - it's a celebration...just like a wedding. After all, it is a gift to have such an occassion and building to come together and worship our Heavenly Father.
There is a blueberry pie sitting in my kitchen right now. My friend at church wears the coolest ties. I am free to say I love blueberry pie but do not need to "lust" after the entire pie do to the fact my hubby also enjoys blueberry pie but most importantly the outcome would not be good for me if I devoured that pie. I am also free to say to my friend at church that I've noticed he wears the coolest ties. If he says "thank you my wife picks them up" I tell him his wife has very good taste. If someone were ever to suggest that compliment was linked to sex I would pray for their lustful soul.
2006-12-12 01:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course - were human. With that said, it doesn't mean we would cheat. Some men use porn to fantasize, I prefer a real human to fantasize about.
2006-12-12 00:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by MommaSchmitt 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its human nature to have fantasies. When I was married, I fantasized about other men, but stayed faithful to the end, for 17 years. I was married, not dead. :)~
2006-12-12 00:47:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋