Met a guy and he told me he's been jobless for over 2 years, has no desire to find another job and other's are supporting him. Owes one friend over $6,000, has 2 DUI's and no driver's license, is behind on child support and said he misses buying pot. Has his truck paid off but titled it in a friend's name and has the friend carry liabilty insurance on it which he claims he pays every month. He talks non stop, called numerous times a day, one time he called 4 times in 10 minutes. Told him to get lost and he still calls at least once a week. I refuse to answer the phone and does he honestly think I want him??? Is he for real????
2006-12-11 23:50:04 · 7 answers · asked by blue_persuasion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he's lazy, self-centered and doesn't know the meaning of responsibility. Sounds like the type of person who will end up on welfare and the working class will get stuck paying for him to be there. Stay as far away from him as possible! Oh, and his friends might want to do he same - sounds like they'll NEVER get their money back... He's a user and a loser.
2006-12-12 00:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by plumbersangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This person is a very insecure fellow and has never been taught or shown what real life is about. He needs to see another person that has been successful in life skills, keeping a job, a home, a happy family with solid relationships. He also needs to get away from drugs and alcohol.
Users are loosers. Don't let him use you! You have no extra money for this type of person. You have no extra time for this type of person. Yes, when you do talk to him, be blunt, to the point, and try to guide him in few words. If possible, do not let him in your house, you'll need police to get him out.
His real need is Jesus Only he can set this person on the right track. Point him in that direction Point him to a church or preacher that will help to lead him to Christ if you yourself do not understand how.
2006-12-12 08:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by groveton_32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you got back together with an old boyfriend and that you're doing a lot of overtime at work
Say, "Sorry I've been missing your calls. Fred (the guy I was seeing before) and I have been going out quite a bit lately. Between that and work, I haven't had much time to chat on the phone. I'll call you when I have some time to talk, and we can catch up."
2006-12-12 08:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change you phone number if you don't want him to call you.
And if he really annoys you that much than you need to set him straight.
Tell him he needs to go out and do something besides sit around and call u every 4 seconds.
Tell him to go get a job.
2006-12-12 08:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by Whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, move away from him, and forget about him. If you have children with him, file for custody and take them far away from such a bad influence.
2006-12-12 07:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, he has LOSER written all over him. In his mind, he's Prince Charming.
2006-12-12 08:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your phone number
2006-12-12 07:52:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋