That the main purpose of their life is that they have to grow to get a job and support their family? Because ethe other day, me and my sisters were discussing what job we would want to have, one of my sister's said " i don't need to have a job, do I?" and my father said no. Maybe coz she'll have a husband to support her.
2006-12-11 22:39:49 · 10 answers · asked by nashpaty 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i cant answer your question because i reached my limit for the day. but yes men do have it pretty hard, but then think of how much they dont have to do. they dont have to have a menstrual cycle they dont have to have kids (experience pregnancy) and they get told fair/real prices by auto mechanics guys got it pretty easy, but they do still have ot work hard, but really not all that much these days because of woman and there fight for independance, so woman get jobs and support families, it depends if u got a man that believes in chivalry or not! lol.
2006-12-12 23:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by ~*cRaCkNeSs*~ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like my sister in laws, and my mother in law. Unfortunately, even with medical problems my fiancee and I can't afford for me not to work, and not only do I have to work, but I also need to cook dinner, pack lunches and make sure breakfast is available, take care of the bills and finances, clean house, and eventually...when we have kids, take care of them as well. All that in mind I'm trying to find a second job so that we can at least make it by in this world and know what it feels like to have 3 meals a day and a nice shelter over our head where we don't have to worry about crime or deadly spiders bites.
So no, all the responsibility shouldn't be on men.Women should have to work to, but the house work and child care needs to be split both ways too if she does work.
2006-12-12 06:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by mirmade13 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its true that men are in charge of their family, and it happens most of the time. But it is all about taking responsibility towards your family. If a girl has no father and no elder brother then she has got no other choice but to earn the bread for the family.
2006-12-12 06:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by Kaushik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throughout the evolution of man, man has always been the family provider. from cave man times to now, society confers the title of provider on the man. any man who does not rise to this responsibility is considered weak, irresponsible, and, yes useless.
being a man, i think and believe this is the way conditions should be. personally, i'm not content until i know that my wife and child are cared for in all respects. that's my duty and i must accpet it willingly.
this is not to say that my wife cannot work outside the family. she has to function inside and outside the family network in a manner that makes her feel whole and satisfied. my wife does work. that's her choice though. my job (principal of an elementary school of 1000 children) pays me amply. as a family we could live and survive (nicely) on my salary. my wife's choice to work stems from her need not to be a prisoner in the home.
her salary does help. consequently, she feels she is making a contribution to our financial future. i applaud her for wanting to share in the monetary workings of our family.
2006-12-12 10:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are generally expected to provide and fight wars.I think its just as important for men to be role models especially if a male child is present.Its a good thing for a dad to show how men should respect women.
2006-12-12 06:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by moaistatue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What we seem to have forgotten, in the rush for "equality" and "feminism" is that there are two sides to a partnership. One stays at home, and raises the children, one goes out to work to get the material things we need to survive and prosper.
What is so unfair about that?
2006-12-12 06:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yeah...yeah......depending on husbands to support them.......bt complains that husband is controlling her life and hold all her freedom.............
D't be too dependend on a man...........he is n't ur father.........lets say if he leaves u one day (out of urlife)........where would you go???
I'm n't telling u n't to trust man (husband)....bt fate might get in the way and turn ur life upside down.........u might lost ur man.....whose goin to support u then???
It is every men responsibility to look after his women.........FOREVER>>>>>
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-12 07:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by SATJ12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why I don't think I'll ever want a family.
2006-12-12 08:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by Keyring 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m a working women,i dont think i can rely on men 100%
2006-12-12 06:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by truth set free 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, it is fair...God told us after Adam messed up that we were going to have to deal with this.....man, Adam messed up BAD
2006-12-12 07:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by j-chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋