Iv been wth my bf for almost 3yrs. im 18 &hes 20 and wev lived together for 1yr.During the past 3yrs iv threatend to dump him a couple times,1st times he cried and begged me not to leave but after that i could tell he thought i wouldnt auctualy do it any other time i said i didnt wanna go out with him anymore,so he jst kinda locked me in his room so i culdnt leave when i was mad cuz he knew hed b able to convince me2stay 1ce i calmed dwn. Wev been fighting/arguing abit 4th last few months like 2times a day or mre ova lil **** tht he makes a big deal of,& he always trys to start arugments&pik at my imperfections(the things he knws i dnt like about myself) &hes just gotton so anoying i just dont wanna be with him anymore.but how do i do it? i hnstly dnt hav a clue how hes gna react,wether hes bein feeling the same or hel totaly physco out (his nana just died lastweek,so hes not here now&its givn me time2think)so im gona think about it4 2weeks then decide,so help pleze.
*Genuwn A's pleze
2006-12-11 22:04:21 · 8 answers · asked by prettypinknz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Firstly, y do idiots always go on about spelling? THIS IS THE INTERNET! WHO GIVES A SHT BOUT SPELLING?! and not an important document, im a junior PA to one of the partners at a law firm, so don’t go on about spelling to me. I am very mature for my age and moving home is not an option at all and i have finished school & done a year at uni. i need sum real serious advice, dont judge me by my age as its not actually an issue here, the issue here is i dont know what to do about my relationship & want advice on that. not my age, spelling or grammar. im also frm New Zealand& i think our values& moral views here a quite alot different frm the usa,. Sex is legal @ 16,& the drinking & political voting age is 18, when you are 18 ur considered fully an adult over here) so with that knowledge & as i said b4, genuine help please.
2006-12-12 12:50:34 · update #1
dump him. just get all your stuff with the help of some friends and leave.
2006-12-11 22:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by living_dead_sandra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to break down your spirit and your resolve so that you don't leave him....in otherwords, he is trying to control you and to make you think that you are not good enough to find someone else. This is abuse. You are too young to stay in a relationship that is not happy and loving....Just pack your bags and move out.....If you are concerned about your safety then go somewhere that you will be safe and stop all contact with him. It would be very easy for you to get caught in the trap of leaving and returning .....leaving and returning...and you could waste many more years doing that....make a clean break and move on...you have your whole life ahead of you...spend it with someone that really loves you and that will treat you as you deserve to be treated....with respect, kindness and love....good luck...
2006-12-12 06:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with u in leaving this guy for good .
the first thing for u to do is to decide ur future plans. because without plans it will be difficult to leave and stay put with ur own life .
this is good enough chance for u when he is out of town or house. do u have to think of him as what he is going to do if he finds u missing ? no , just keep away from his view and approach in case he gets lunatic and comes after u .
all the best
2006-12-12 06:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by sas35353535 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wait two weeks?...now is the time to make your move while the cat is out the house...you and he are young and a bit immature for a relationship...either continue your education or find a job or both....make a life for yourself..live for yourself...be selfish for the next 3 years and then when you think you can share yourself with anothers be ready, willing and able....don't let others push you around....good luck...
2006-12-12 06:31:31 · answer #4 · answered by sayasyoulike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your age tells the story here move on .Also try the spell check button it works.
2006-12-12 06:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Louis K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite frankly you both need to grow up and you should not be together if you are both immature. Just leave and go home!
2006-12-12 06:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all go back to school and learn spelling, english and grammar, then come back and ask your question.
2006-12-12 06:09:44 · answer #7 · answered by todd_76705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cohabiting hmmm? leave the same way u entered.
2006-12-12 06:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by Another face in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋