I keep making the same stupid mistakes I make all the time. I don't really notice when it happenes, but I know it later....I don't want to lose my friendship with my sister over this.
What can I do?
2006-12-11 21:51:29 · 13 answers · asked by DeeDee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My problems are mostly in talking, I say things I don't mean, or say them wrong, I do not seem to listen to myself.
2006-12-12 05:13:53 · update #1
U shd try to change over or have a make-over in your lifestyle.....in the htings u normally do......n in the places u normally go to.
sometimes life creeps up on us without our knowledge......it's somewhat like riding in a car for hours & hours.......listening to the monotonous humming of the running engine...........while passing nondescript landscape.
........and after several hours our mind or brain cells are dumbed ........n gone into hibernation.......n we tend to do things mechanically.......repeatedly......without direction....... sensation....... or taste.........or concious awareness!
Thats....my dear.....I believe is your problem....! Ur life has been too monotonous & unvarying.....leading u to commit the same mistakes over & over again........without instant recognition......but delayed knowledge of the end results which..... when you do.......came a s surprises!
Try running up the stairs.......jump over an obstacle e.g. a cat in the way.......walk a circle around a tree in your path before you walk on.......throw a stone into a passing lake or pond......n watch the ripples for a while.......stp to smell the roses......or the scent of autumn's fallen leaves........feel the raindrops on your open palm........n bring it to wet your face & feel the coolness!
One could do a million things different & wake up the senses......n find the joy of living!
Good luck.........n I'm sure your sister will notice the new spring in your step........n the new warmness of your heart.
Sing a son.....love is in the air!
2006-12-11 22:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously its hard to give a good answer without more specifics on what you keep doing but one thing I can suggest is to think before acting or saying anything. Sometimes we do things (or say things) in the spur of the moment that can hurt someone but when we slow down, it gives us the chance to make the right decisions. Sorry I can't help more but good luck!
2006-12-11 21:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by slknspphr3645 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might need to explain this better to get the answer you are after sorry to be blunt but the only thing i can offer is to concentrate more and think before you speak and tell your sister how your feeling about the situation. good luck if you want help feel free to email me.
2006-12-11 21:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about taking her clothes,,or her boyfriends.Depending on your sister,she just might beat you up next time(ask me I know I have 6 older sisters.
2006-12-11 21:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by sandie a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where your self respect for your self and the love for your sister you should be a shame of your self if you need a booty call there are bar for that and leave your sister boy friend alone
2006-12-11 21:58:48 · answer #5 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God and ask for your sister's forgiveness. Be honest and forthcoming.
2006-12-11 21:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Illuminated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what mistake u did and y u think u will loose ur sis pls be specific
2006-12-11 21:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont make it again love others dont be stupid to them dont joke when they are very serious thank you
2006-12-11 21:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more details.
2006-12-11 22:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Masturbate,, after you wake up,, and just before you go to sleep.
2006-12-11 22:04:16 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Sam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋