2006-12-11 20:36:23 · 10 answers · asked by Superman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
do foreplay longer. sex is also not just about entering what in what but its also about touching and having fun.
2006-12-11 20:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't need to go beyond 15 minutes. Neither does my husband's and mine but it's a great 15 minutes and I wouldn't trade it for anything. If she has a problem with it, try to change things up a little. Masturbate about 1/2 hour before you start foreplay. That will help keep the feelings at bay for a little while longer. If that doesn't work, try rubbing baby oregel on it. It has the exact same active ingredient that is in most desensitizers at a fraction of the cost(and it tastes better). Also trying different positions may work. ood luck and just remember, she didn't marry you for the sex.....I hope!
2006-12-11 20:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The art of love making is just penetration.
You could go on all night.
There are really good books on the art of love making.
Plus you could get videos. Not porn but educational.
My husband and I have a video on Erotic massage.
But there are many books on the market that include the whole package of foreplay, love making and after play…
With the right foreplay, 15 minutes of penetration is more than enough for her to reach multiple orgasms.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you.
Enjoy your experimenting.
2006-12-11 21:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by Louw D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont buy no book or anything. first ask her what she really wants in bed. the biggest turn on for a women is for her man to understand her body and her every spot. also tell her that she has a great body and that she is the only one for u. Keep complimenting her, but not to much where it gets annoying. U an always give her a massage. go buy some massage oils or even lovemaking oils that u can lick off of her. rubbing her body always helps. her thighs, back, shoulders, everywhere basically. u also need to do foreplay. do lots of foreplay. oral sex is the ultimate key to get her wet. licking, sucking, and nibbling will rock her world!! guarantee it. and if u want to be more freaky try role playing. Pretend that ur a doctor and she is a patient or she an police officer and your a bad boy!! I hope that helps!
2006-12-11 20:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by superstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest 15 minutes is a little over average for males. But if you want to gain more stamina there are a number of things that can be done to help this. Here are a few I can thing of off of the top of my head.
1. A better diet...IE more fruits and fresh vegitables.
2. Lower nicotine levels.
3. Invest time a physical training regiment - in particular I would focus on running and/or sprinting [Helps expand the lungs] (exercise.)
4. More forplay in the bedroom.
2006-12-11 21:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by kataklysmkamel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she likes for you to do to her. It can be a little embarrasing at first, but get her to open up and talk to you about what she would like, and let her know what you like. Sometimes 15 minutes of actual lovemaking is enough, if the foreplay leading up to it makes you both ready.
The older you get, the less time is required for the actual lovemaking, and more foreplay is needed, sometimes.
Experiment with each other, don't just get right down to business. Make the foreplay last, and you will know.
2006-12-11 21:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by ARR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
add about 30 to 40 minutes foreplay. give her all the attention..if you know what I mean...eventually the giving will come back to you. then after an hour or so of love play..slowww intercourse in whatever spontaneous manner that comes to you both...then...go for it....then rest try again. The Ropes, and other supplements will help too. Viagra..ect.
2006-12-11 20:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by knowlegeSeeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am impressed that there's a guy out there who actually is concerned about making it better for his wife! TELL HER! She will love you for caring! She will be so grateful to you because you are a very rare being and she will recognize this instantly and you will become as treasure in her eyes! I cannot stress this enough: TELL HER. and do as she says...
2006-12-11 20:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by BlueLotus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lovers Package has these nifty little pills my husband took that seemed to work. I'd ask them if you don't wish to go to a doc for viagra or something.
2006-12-11 20:38:56 · answer #9 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know before you used her,make her arouse or kiss all part of her body make her hungry for you...do all the positions ...and please dont think urself ur wife too ok..how she can release her heat..thats gud..try it
2006-12-11 20:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by shesmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋