She came home and I heard her in her room making sexual sounds and I walked in to give her her lunch for school and she had her pants down and rubbing herself.Is this normal? I have never had a problem like this before.
2006-12-11 20:30:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Masturbation is very normal. Let her know that every one does it. She's discovering her sexuality; and she was in the privacy of her room. Maybe you should knock before entering.
2006-12-11 20:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by danaluana 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
This is perfectly normal for a person of this age. They love to discover and explore themselves. Don't try to scare your daughter by shouting or complaining. Instead you should tell her
1. Its perfectly normal for girls of her age
2. If possible apologize for intruding into her privacy, and also assure that you would knock the door before coming to her room in future.
3. Try and open dialog on the topic. Make her comfortable talking by convincing her to the fact that it is normal and you being experienced would be able to resolve her doubts better than her friends of similar age. Consider this as an option, as this would ensure that she knows that she can come to you for any doubts; and need not to explore other sources which may not be always right.
2006-12-12 05:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ripley 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
There is no "problem" and thereis no way to "handle" it either. Being 16 and masturbating goes hand in hand with each other
2006-12-12 10:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by syphon41580 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a problem. It's normal and healthy behavour called masturbation. Both boys and girls do it. You never did it? Maybe you're the one with the problem. Definitely learn how to knock and respect your daughters privacy she's almost an adult treat her like it! If I were your daughter, I'd be so pissed at you for walking in without knocking! That's just plain rude.
2006-12-12 05:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'd say your 16 yo daughter should get with your 12 yo daughter for some pointers. The younger one seems to have more experience with sex and could help the older one break the evil habit of masturbation and have a guy do it for her.
Sheesh, if you're going to troll, you should probably not ask more than one question per user name.
2006-12-12 07:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Yes it's normal to masturbate, it's not a problem and for heaven's sake the woman is 16, knock on the door before you go in. She deserves a little privacy.
2006-12-12 11:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by tabithap 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, Mom. Were you not 16 once?. Didn't you ever explore your body at that age?. I know my 13yr old daughter felt the tickle at 2!. I had to endure seeing her hump that pure little bunny. I was told not to worry tho, she'll grow out of it, and she did!. It's normal Mom. Just DON"T make a big deal of it or your relationship with her is doomed
2006-12-12 04:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by gord's360 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds perfectly reasonable and normal to me.
I would suggest you ask her to keep her door locked in future, though, as it was probably pretty embarrassing for both of you, but I certainly wouldn't say anything more to her than simply to apologise for entering.
2006-12-12 10:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its perfectly normal for girls of her age to at like her. And u'd better b thankful she's not doing it with a boy. In future, Knock(unless of course u enjoy lookin at her with her trou down)
2006-12-13 01:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you bring her lunch in her room?Especially if you heard these sounds? You'd better take your girl to a gyn as every female needs one & get her some birth control,,then in the future,,knock.
2006-12-12 04:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋