OK Ladies, here it is. Are you aware or do you have any idea of how many hearts you break when you tell your best male friends that you just want to be friends and that's all? Does it bother you that they truly love you? Why do you sell yourselves short? Do you feel yourself unworthy of such devotion? Don't rationalize or make excuses for your actions or your feelings. Just answer the questions.
2006-12-11 20:12:07 · 9 answers · asked by Monsieur Rick 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am unable to answer this question ... i dont know why I cant commit even though he is my best friend.
Maybe im not worthy of such affection and yes i am breaking his heart ... but i just cant control it
I love him coz hes my best mate and we may do everything together .. but im just not in love with him and thats the problem
Love can grow on someone but i feel that if the spark isnt there .. it probably wont ever be there ..
I just feel that one day he will find someone who will give him the love in return ..
ARGH ... that is a good question and geeze i feel like crap now after reading my answer!
im sucha cow!
2006-12-11 20:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by DeeDee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ive dealt with it several times. It has bothered me somewhat, mostly because I want a friend, not someone who wants me for something else. I don't think any less of myself because of it and neither should any other woman. All you can do is not lead them on. You cant control someone else's feelings when you dont feel the same way.
2006-12-11 20:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Christines256 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we are well aware that when we tell people that we only want to be friends that they obviously have feelings that are being hurt. It would hurt us to pretend otherwise. The truth hurts.
2006-12-11 20:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by kayle_rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends is long lasting. I dont see people get along with their ex very often.
2006-12-11 20:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its being truth and sometime the true hurts!
2006-12-11 20:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes
2006-12-11 20:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman dont want to be slimed on by guys like you
2006-12-11 20:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you need to let us know!
If we want it, we will have it!
2006-12-11 20:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by justjellybeans 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok
2006-12-11 20:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋