her and my wife birth date is same but she is 3yrs older then mywife .my wife and penfreind knows each other through me.we (pen friend and me ) talk on phone ,chat,sms,mail each other ,now should we meet each other ,or not?
2006-12-11 19:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by raj1973 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well first of all, just think why you asked such a question. I think you feel that u r having some kind of affection towards this gal. But remember you have a life-partner. She believes you so much thatz why she´s been talking to that gal also. So don´t cheat your wife. I think you shouldn´t meet coz that may cause problems for you in your family life.
2006-12-11 20:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Kiran Vinayan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your penpal are getting a little bit flirty then I would say NO!!! It will only lead to a confusing situation if you are attracted to her. Even if you take your wife with you and you are attracted to her it will be bad because you will have seen her in the flesh and constantly have her on your mind. You are married and if you want to stay married I would suggest no if there is an attraction.
2006-12-12 03:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Tina S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should meet and make sure you bring your wife with you to meet your "penfriend"!
2006-12-12 04:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choice, Dude.
Why did you wait 11 years to ask? Maybe you should have met her before you got married. (Ask your Wife)
2006-12-12 03:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bit strange but if you want to meet her (why?) perhaps you AND your wife could arrange to have coffee with her somewhere.
2006-12-12 03:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Things are not as confusing as you describe. Just follow your heart & meet her, its better than regreting in the future.
2006-12-12 03:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by Joeann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.this will spoil your married life.wait for another 11 yrs ,if your family life is planned to settled
2006-12-12 03:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by sk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋