2006-12-11 19:37:26 · 35 answers · asked by lalit n 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i myself am the same with you...
just wanna share it a lil bit. . .
when i was a lil child, i have dreamt of becoming an artist. friends of mine said that i have the gift for it. i learn so much things about arts. but, as time goes by, i realized that life isn't as beautiful as it is in my mind nor in the movie.
many problems i got to face and solve.
i am 19 yo right now. i find myself is different with what i used to be. the dream and reason for me to be living is gone right now.
i have no dream at all. no reason to live.
right now i just live myself as today is my last day and have these words in my mind, "When you were born, you were crying and the whole world was full of joy because of you. Live the best of your life, so when you die, the whole world will be crying and you will be full of joy".
i think that is the only thing why i should live and you as well, pal.
hope this will help you.
God bless you . . .
2006-12-11 20:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by ItzJonn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you think of your options life is the correct answer even if it sucks. One thing I have learned is that what we are experiencing today may not mean a dam thing tomorrow. If you stop and think about your emotional state of mind and all of the events that lead up to your question, it becomes easier to understand why it is so easy to get depressed in our society. I will use my sorry excuse of a life as an example. The other day I was having a conversation with my father prior to work [and I am always a little on edge that final hour before work] and he was pushing my buttons, so I am driving to work and I am really upset at myself, then I paused my thoughts for a moment and realized that have been had. It is very important to understand how displaced emotion can trigger obscure behavior. Also it is important to understand that it can be turned off as easy as it was turned on. Perhaps, not so easy for everyone but always believe that I can control my behavior to an extent. Maybe you need to purge the system? Have you cried lately? Some people need a terrible event to show this emotion, I don't if I am alone and feeling really blue I am not afraid to cry even if it is a form of self pity. It is a release. It doesn't do any good to keep everything all bottled up.
2006-12-11 20:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by 2-007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have every reason to live. you were put here on the earth to do something, that is, you have a purpose. it doesn't have to be big. it could be small. maybe u won't save the world, but maybe you smiled at someone yesterday and maybe that smile made all the difference to that person's day.
so, whether u realize it or not, whatever you do, no matter how big or small, your actions have consequences to u and to those around you.
each of us has talents. some may not be as obvious as others. u know ur what u r talented at. u know u r good at some things. take it up and use your talents. you'll be surprised how happy and content that will make you.
and if u r a religious person, know that God loves you and you would hurt Him the most if you hurt yourself because He created you and He loves you more than a parent could. Know that no one knows you better than He does. and yes, He knows you better than you know yourself. Trust in Him to take away your pain. He's willing to take it because He is our Loving Father.
2006-12-11 20:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every one says that u r in this world 2 fullfill a goal. which only u can do // ur part is writtn (where????). there is a task left only for u and no one alse can accomplish it.. ha
its sumtimes funny when u dont evn klnow that what ur good at or u atleast know that u r good at nothing, its really hard to live in this competitive world.
our society wants us busy with any worldy aim like 2 be a doc an engnr a scientist etc.
so that we dont roam askin a question that what i am living for??even these people running the world 2 day dont know the answer and the worst part is they don wanna know bcuz at some time in their life they started with this question, were fed up as no readymade answer was available so these humans exhuasted and frustrated engrossed themselves with any practice so that they have no time to think about your question//
i appreciate ur askin this question bcuz here right in front of u is a reason to live. find an answer to the question why humans are still living dont ask any crackhead elder whos is too busy with an aim of bieng sumone.. ask this questions to no ones who know nothin bout the selfish world.
2006-12-11 20:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by aztix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your life is worth living! You have a reason to live. If not, you wouldn't even be alive! Just go out and feel you are alive, search for the beautiful things in live, aid people, read a book (a happy one), eat your favourite food, do whatever you want to celebrate you are alive!
2006-12-11 19:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by B*aquero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you realize it right now or not you have a reason to live. Your life should be enough of a reason but if you need more it will come to you don't worry. You may not see it now but in the future you will know. Just keep your head up and know that your life has meaning.
2006-12-11 19:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell us WHY u r feeling this way?? Having school trouble?? then study harder.
Having girl/guy trouble try working things out.
Parents giving u a hard time?? Sit down & tell them how u r feeling.
Exercise alleviates despair. Get out doors and do something. Even if u just take a walk 'round the block. Sometime seeing other peoples lives makes you realize yourz is not so bad...
Hugs from Shayla
2006-12-11 19:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a reason to live. You were born into the world to live, and live's what you'll do. And by living i mean making the most of every second of your life. Life is there to be lived.
2006-12-11 19:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by Ina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously so sick of these questions. It's not our fault if your life has no meaning. Of course your life sucks if you don't do anything all day. If you spend your life sitting on your couch playing video games or vegging out online of course you're going to have no real reason to live. Get out and do something for pete's sake.
2006-12-11 19:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is a mystery.
only by going through it can you be able to understand the deeper reasons for why you live.
the future will change and provide many of the reasons that you seek.
2006-12-11 19:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋