I love my bestfriend. She's great. We have a lot of fun together, all that. We are very close, but she's not someone who I can talk with about the guys in my life. She has a boyfriend who she is very serious about, and doesn't really understand that anyone else can feel the same way as she does about other guys. ( AKA me, and guys I like) I half started to tell her about this one guy who I went through a bad break up with, but I stopped because I don't want her to not understand, and I don't want to be embarassed.
Is it okay to still consider her my bestfriend??
2006-12-11 19:34:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You ask us a question, and tell us about your personel life when we, and you have no idea who you are. Does THAT make us best friends?
Best friends are for those who go with you thick and thin, know you inside and out and can accept you for who you are. If keeping secrets is for the best, then dont tell her about your boy friend.
But dont be afraid to be honest, if she asks about it, it means she wants to know and by thta time you know you can open up to her. Respecting your difference and tolerating at some point is just what makes best friends well...best friends.
Whatever your comfortable doing, but never let her out of your life.
2006-12-11 19:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by rhea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of Course! Just because you cant talk to her about guys in your life doesn't mean she cant be considered you best friend.
You need to sit her down where she can't be distracted and talk to her about how you feel she doesn't understand if she protests stop her from talking this is your turn to talk. Even if she doesnt believe you then describe how much you feel about the guys so she does know you are for real!
Good Luck I hope it works out!
2006-12-12 03:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Giraffe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, is ok to consider her your best friend. I mean u don't have to tell her everything i mean she chose not to understand and accept the fact that people do feel different things.. So it ok.
2006-12-12 03:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by MFC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the possibility of her knowing about these affairs thru some one else is negligible, u forget about it. Why creates doubts in her mind.
2006-12-12 03:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you still have to talk with you friend about this kind a problem. Anyway she is your best friend, she will forgive you for this kind a problem
2006-12-12 03:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by oleoliharu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me.. there's no good fren... cos they never keep the promises...
seems u r regret to not tell her... so just keep silence...
sometimes u have to keep some secrets from everyone..
cos the big enemy is always beside u..
2006-12-12 03:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends are those you trust...sounds like a girlfriend girlfriend relationship maybe you are gay.
2006-12-12 03:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She can be your BEST friend!! Mine I will not tell everything that is how she stays my best friend.
2006-12-12 03:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋