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2006-12-11 19:28:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find out the reasons for his request and find out if you both could work out of the issues. If not, seek professional advice. Advice him that divorce should be the last recourse. Take care!
2006-12-11 19:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, most people don't realize that divorce does not make their life happier or easier. I would immediately get professional counseling. I am actually studying a book called Divorce Busting, which I recommend. It says that if the counselor you go see quickly recommends a divorce also go see someone else. Take the opportunity to start fresh and fall in love all over again, instead of divorcing and keeping all the wounds and hurts inside.
2006-12-11 19:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by the_conscience1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot is missing from this story. Why does he want to divorce you? Are you cheating? Is he cheating? How long have you been married? Do you have kids?
The biggest question is why would you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you? If you are just scared to be alone then that's no reason to stay married. Staying in a relationship that is falling apart just to have a companion is counter-productive.
2006-12-11 23:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how bad things are you may need to just let him go. If it's worth fighting for don't give up. Divorce is an ugly thing. Going through it right now. and let me tell you it's not easy. Good luck
2006-12-11 19:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go ahead! Once the chain of mutual understanding breaks no one can rectify it. Possbly your hubby is having a mutually understanding lady partner, whom he believes will be better than you in all aspects in comparison!!
Once it breaks legally, you may go ahead with some universtiy studies to forget the married life and later settle down with a proper person who is affectionate and extends his kindness for all your views and future plans!!
But what ever you do now, do them with utmost care and caution!!!
God Bless You....!!!
2006-12-11 19:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to do so because of some deficiency in u, ask for time from him and mend urself. If it is some other reason, think about it coolly and decide. U cannot hang on to a person who is not interested in living with u.
2006-12-11 19:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and see why he want to divorce u and if they reason u think u made him do this maybe u should tell him u will try to work on it.. And if they reason is crap and is not your frualt and he just want u to change and dont see why u need to change then divorce him.
2006-12-11 19:34:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See this is a real tough time.sit down and analyse why he want to divorce u .is it physical gratification,or something else.after analysing sit with ur husband and try to findout reason for so.Dont jump to defend if he points any mistake.note them down and come back with answers .there is nothing which can be solve dby talking,but u will have to do heart to heart talk
2006-12-11 19:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by mans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it over and see if it is really worth it. You may be able to salvage the marriage but both of you have to be willing to put whole effort into it. Counseling could also be an option.
2006-12-11 19:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by velveeta00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well then ,, tell him to hit the road,,, and dont let the door hit him in the b u t t on the way out....if you have kids,, you will get the house and half.. probably...
get an attorney is probably what you should do...
good luck
call me afterward,,, darn,, and its Christmas time,, hes a jerk!!!
2006-12-11 19:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋