What to do with our friend Leo?

Question

My Partner and I have been friends with Leo for a little over 2 years/ He is a gay Latino Male who is very good looking. The problem is that he is very shy. People (men) often think he is being a snob, because he wont even make eye contact, return a smile or speak when addressed. If we go out to a club he wants to dance with just the two of us, which is unfair to my partner and I. We have tried to hook him up with men that would make good dates but he refuses. He often uses the excuse "Iam not into those types." Some of our other friends think he is a snob and far to picky. Our we blind, is our friend really shy or really a stuck up picky person?

Answer 1

He does sound like a snob. He may not really think any of those other guys are good enough for him. And he doesn't have to date because he has the two of you for an enterouge.
I say it is time to push the baby out of the nest. Next time you as a couple want to make an evening of it, make sure Leo either has his own date or knows that three can be a crowd.

Answer 2

I think he is just getting the feel of a relationship from you and your partner. I am sure he is in a comfort zone with you 2! I have seen confused men do this to alot of couples! Straight couples and gay couples. Its like they enjoy to be the 3rd wheel or something. I am sure he has his standards pretty high. He should leave yall alone yall already got eachother and he should find a partner!!

Answer 3

I think you must ask him what his problem is. Maybe he does not want to open up very easily to other people. I think he makes those excuses because he is scared of something, maybe scared of commitment or settling down with a partner?

All you need to do is ask him and let him know that you are all ears and ready to help.

Answer 4

He may be secertly in love with one of you.