I don't want to touch her anymore with those stretchmarks all over her stomach. It really makes me sick. She should have used cocoa butter when she was pregnant with our child, but she DIDN'T and now she stomach is loose and floppy and covered with creases and stretchmarks. I GAG just thinking about them! I'm sorry, but it's true! She wants to "make love, but HONESTLY! I don't really want her touching me at this point til she gets that taken care of. What should she do to get rid of her unsightly stretchmarks and loose skin?
2006-12-11 18:51:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Close your eyes or turn off the lights and make love like you have NEVER MADE LOVE BEFORE.
The baby is yours. Be a good daddy, damn it.
2006-12-11 18:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by jokerscard692000 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Cocoa butter doesnt always work and stretch marks dont dissappear overnight. The loose skin will go with some excercises but that happens to every woman after child birth. Right now you should be thinking that your girl is the most beautiful woman in the world because she put her body and mind thru a lot to have your child. Stop being so selfish and shallow stop worrying what she looks like and love her more than you did before.
2006-12-11 19:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Big red 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Shame upon you guy. Do you think your girlfriend is happy with those stretchmarks or she invited them? If you would be a gettleman you could help masseging her stomach with cocoa butter while she was preg (if you real think it prevents) rather than waiting her to do it herself. It is because you are an immature man and dont know the pregnancy argony otherwise you couldnt think the way you are thinking now. Like the previous advice, I would also advice you appart of using cocoa butter and the likes, apply this technique; think of your girlfriend before pregnancy, close your eyes and then have sex with her. She needs you and what changes her body has got it is not her wish, I could say it is you who cause it because it is you who make her pregnant and the baby born is yours. Wake up guy and stop thinking and acting childish
2006-12-11 23:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mama A 1 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are a millionaire and can afford to get a bunch of surgery done for her, I say 'build a bridge and get over it!' I'm sure you must have at least one stretch mark on your body and does your gf call you disgusting? In my opinion stretchmarks from pregnancy are badges of honor!
2006-12-11 19:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by madcatz1979 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ummm, the world may never know! I hope some guys answer this one truthfully! I think like this, if we have them and are always trying to get rid of them, I think guys hate them as much or even more so! I wish we didn't get these! It makes no sense, that we have water weight gain each month, and not to mention pregnancy. It's the 3 P's that causes the stretch marks in the 1st place... PUBERTY, PERIOD, and PREGNANCY! Losing weight rapidly can cause them.
2016-03-13 06:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sooooooo ungratefull man you are a father now try shoving some sense and sympathy in ur brain ur wife went through labor the pain and everything else so you can have a kid and all you can say is "my girlfriend has disgusting stretchmarks all over her" if u truly love her this shouldnt be that big of a deal and u GAG just thinkin about it? you got issues maybe you should have taken some time while she was was pregnent and rubbed cocoa butter on her.............
2006-12-11 19:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by AJ 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
you know little man you don't deserve your girlfriend or a baby. just stop and think of all the father's who have a wife they love with stretch marks and all things about her.but for some reson or another they lost their little darling. so you better stop and snell the roses you don.t know how lucky you are to have her and the baby. i know what i'm talking about losing a child is a pain no parent should have to go through.. take and rewind your brain and wish you hadn't even asked a question like you did . ask for
2006-12-11 19:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by dulla mae 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you are a ******* pig. I'm surprised your gf even stays with you. Why don't you try carrying a person inside you for 9 months and then go through 17+ hours of labor and see how your body looks afterwards. We can't all be supermodels with professional trainers and plastic surgeons. I hope she dumps you.
2006-12-11 19:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
There's a Product called Bio Oil, which is supposed to be really good for stretch marks, i used to sell heaps of it when i was working in a pharmacy.
2006-12-11 18:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by JD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but theres no way you can take those stretch marks off. it'll be there for the rest of her life... all she need to do to prevent from further stretch marks are, exercise and more sit ups! sit ups! sit ups! and tell her to rub a mosturizing lotion daily. OR maybe there's a chance visit this website....
http://www.ecresearchcorp.com/SearchResults.asp?Cat=33&Click=30698&OVRAW=best%20stretch%20mark%20cream&OVKEY=best%20stretch%20mark%20cream&OVMTC=standard
Just keep in mind, these creams are sometimes not guaranteed of results.
2006-12-11 18:58:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
truthfully i dont think she could of helped it...i mean coco butter wont work for everyone...she can try putting some of it on her now it has helped my aunty with getting rid of it but truth is...it wont go away. try telling her to use tighting lotion to tighten up some of her loose skin and the scar strectchmark cocobutter it will help it fade and shrink but i don't think it will get completely gone....someone should invent something that would work for that though.
2006-12-11 18:58:32 · answer #11 · answered by nalu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋