My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-11 18:17:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He is a loser and wants to bother you,kind of a sadistic idiot who writes a message and imagines you being scared while reading it.That's why he writes you.He knows you will be scared.Don't reply,don't talk to him.If he won't stop,tell him you told cops about him and shown them all his messages,it should scare him.
2006-12-11 18:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Inuyasha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow he's really creepy! If you never reply to any of his messages, don't give him any response at all, chances are he will stop eventually. However if he goes any further, like coming around and threatening you, you should definitely get the police involved.
By the way, dancing with guys who are not your boyfriend is not even remotely a form of cheating. You're not cheap, he's crazy. I'm glad you've gotten away from him.
2006-12-11 18:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont just ditch this guy, get a restraining order. This guy is most likely a manipulative sociopath that tells you how deeply he loves you after beating you up. LEAVE before you end up in the cycle that goes along with abuse.
2006-12-11 18:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by zebj25 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He abuses you because you put yourself in his path. You take his calls and you keep taking him back after all he's done to you. We show people how we want to be treated and you are showing him you want to be treated like crap. And I would worry about him because you can end up dead. Why would you want him to contact you again? You are not a victim you are a participant.
2006-12-11 18:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could just be a troll giving you a hard time
2006-12-11 21:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by Byzantino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he abused you, then ditch him. I don't get women that put themselves in this situation. It's your own fault.
2006-12-11 18:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋