My 13 y/o son invited his girlfriend over for a movie. I went upstairs for about 15 minutes, and when I came down, I saw them making out, and they were both pretty into it... He doesn't know I saw them either... Do you think this is normal for a kid his age, or should I do something? By the way, they have been boyfriend and girlfriend for about 8 months. Please voice your opinion!
2006-12-11 18:11:55 · 29 answers · asked by Jennifer L 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
teach him how to respect girls. its normal but maybe you can help him at least turn into a semi decent teenage boy
2006-12-11 18:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by HeNRY 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, yes, I think it's too young, way too young.
But nowadays it seems you're not too young to do anything, so, if you haven't done this already of course, may I suggest you tell your son about the many dangers of having unprotected sex? Let's face it....making out most of the times leads to more than that, right?
And maybe, (I'll probably get a thumbs down for this, but I have to say it anyway) you might want to contact the girl's mom, or parents, and have a talk about how to handle this together.
2006-12-12 02:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Joshua 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah
unless you guys are responsible and ready to be raising a child for the next 18 plus years. Slow down and stop trying to do grownfolks suff be a kid and enjoy the teen years . quit being in rush to experience adult crap . Cus once you get my age and have a carnot, rent, and other bills its not all that its cracked up to be . Listen to u parental figure they have good facts about life because its hard out here its not fun adn games like snoop dogg and paris hilton them all try andf make it out to be . Adult life is work and hard work and if u have enough cash as a single person of a maried couple you can have a small amount of fun. That is gonna be a issue for the rest of your life . My question to you are you ready to be a grandmother by the time he's 16
2006-12-12 02:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
As I mother myself, I can understand your not wanted to put him on the spot at his age, but it would be best if you confronted him with it. My mom says, "If it's enough for you to worry over, it's enough to confront". It may be somewhat normal at his age if the girl is willing but it may go too far and they may become pregnant. My 17 year old daughter and 14 year old niece said the "big style" right now is to be pregnant as young as you can be. Bye some condoms, tell him how you do not agree with what you saw. He will be embarrassed, but give them to him and ASK him to carry one at all times so you won't have to worry. Explain STDs and pregnancy, child support, court rooms, responsibilities, no friend time when you have children and goodbye to his funnest times in life without the protection. Good Luck. All parents need it.
2006-12-12 02:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by Liome 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is just way too young for this kind of sexual contact -- and as a parent, what you saw (and when you did not say anything) -- you are tacitly 'approving' the behavior of your son in this situation.
What are you going to do or say -- if this son comes to you when he is barely 14 or 15 -- and tells you -- MOM -- you are going to be a Grandma!
2006-12-12 02:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In todays society, I think it's pretty natural. The age of kids losing their virginity has lowered to 13-14 in some cases. Not to scare you..I saw it with some of my friends, and with myself. (No..I'm not saying 'I' did, but I'm saying the mind frame was there). I'd suggest you try and do your best to make sure it doesnt go any farther, though.
2006-12-12 02:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by intothecrimsonsky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its definitely 2 young..
13 y/o is still a baby..
have a talk w/ur son & explain it 2 him in a very constructive way that he's 2 young 4 that & he needs 2 wait till he's atleast 15 or 16 y/o..
2006-12-12 02:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is it normal? Yes. If they are allowed to get away with it, they will. Is it right? No. This is way too young. You need to have a serious talk with your son. Also, I would talk to the girl's parents about it. They need to be made aware of what their little girl is doing.
2006-12-12 02:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki Tesla 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
absolutely normal. take a stroll over to the adolescents section of Y! Answers. there are plenty of pregnant 13 year olds wondering what the hell happened. if you are going to just watch maybe you should just make sure he has plenty of condoms.
2006-12-12 03:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Go! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
too young
not to worry you but
most of the people I know that dated for that period of time in that age, were already sexually active.
in fact, if a couple had been dating for over 6 months that automatically meant they had slept together and every one knew.
2006-12-12 02:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by experiMENTAL bunny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its to young. I would have freaked out and sat between them through the rest of the movie.
2006-12-12 02:16:50 · answer #11 · answered by tootsie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋