If you think about it psychologically, it is the men who get side tracked cheking out women and when it comes to sex, women can get guys to do practically anything if there is a possibility for him to get lucky.
Maybe that is why a few guys become abusers. They feel threatened by a womans power and they have to take it out phisically. I know that is not the case with all men, that is why I said a few. some guys are weaker that others.
Any thoughts. I would like to hear what guys think about this too. Would you agree?
Thanks.
2006-12-11 17:57:36 · 18 answers · asked by haiku_katie 4 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
As a male I am glad you say a "few" men are abusers!
That said I do agree with the sex part........
But as far as being mentally weaker? I would say equal. Yes women can multi task and that is a plus. Men don't do well at the multi tasking but can focus in more on a task.
Men's singular task mind seems less stressful then worrying meaning less stress!
This is generaly speaking of course.
2006-12-11 18:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by cooter_1us 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I love it when people talk about why men become abusers, and then totally leave out the little fact that just as many *women* become abusers as well.
The idea that women are weaker than men makes you sound like a feminist -- the annoying type, not the other type. I'm all for empowering the fair sex, but not if it means we have to trample on everyone else to do it.
There's really no way of saying that one gender is stronger than the other, because in the end, everyone is going to be biased when answering it. Personally, I think there is no 'stronger' of either one -- it's a balance, like the idea of two halves coming together. Abusers -- both men *and* women -- crave power over others to alleviate their own mental insecurities and/or instabilities.
2006-12-12 02:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by 真理沙 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
men don't get sidetracked looking at women. that just comes second nature! getting to your question though, I guess it would depend. Real men, don't hit. those that do have some psychological issues. They also know that when women give it up in exchange for something, it is a win-win. Both parties get what they want I tend to think that the sexes balance each other out. Why does one have to be better. Look at any lasting marraige, they are equals. Both are tough when the other is at their weakest.
2006-12-12 02:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Blaming all men isn't fair because that's being too general. It needs to be more specific, like the guys we seem to be drawn towards. It has to do with the guys we pick and why we pick them. Do we think that's all we deserve, some jerk? We deserve better and there is better out there. I promise.
2006-12-12 02:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You got to be joking, if society didn't look at women who like to have sex as sluts then more women would do it and therefore lose this control over mens sexuality because if they didn't put out then he'd move on to an easier target. Men are stronger phyically and emotionally but are equals when it comes to intelligence but that's about it.
2006-12-12 02:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Yes, because they can't possibly do what a woman does in 24 hours, 7 days a week, including holidays, go through child birth and have monthly periods.
Although they sometimes act like they do !
2006-12-12 11:14:29 · answer #6 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's called animal magnetism... Like every other male species in the world we want to dominate other men for more females, so our reproductive genes will flourish... It's an natural instinct that has been with men for thousands of yrs...
2006-12-12 02:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kirk D 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No I wouldn't agree with you. We all have our strengths and weakness', we are not complete without a mate.
I take offense to any woman that uses sex to get something out of a guy! What a disgusting human being.....to use something so precious and pleasurable that should be shared joyfully and use it to manipulate a man.....that is a sin in my opinion, its not why gave you these gifts at all.
2006-12-12 02:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 10⤊ 1⤋
We cant say weaker gender,but psychologically they need someone ,man or women to have some moral support to polish their qualities.
2006-12-12 02:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hello good evening, my dear. I will begin our chat. Take a sip of wine...
"When you are strong mentally, this remains basically forever. When you are strong physically, pow. You're dead. (And quite gone, at that.)"
- Steals wine and sips calmly.
"It goes the other way around. Push WO-man to far and you're dead. I hear women are starting to beat men. They come crawling to the police and they don't believe it, so start laughing and tell them to go home. Quite amusing, to hear men start complaining about that like women once did or still do complain about the same thing of the matter of men."
- Twirls finger in left over wine
"Only the innocent believe men and women are equal. Now at first it was only man, he who insists man are the better, or more intelligent species. One thing we know about man? General men are extremely arrogant, ignorant, and will almost always believe they are better no matter what you are we say. (Besides, God or no God as you believe, would that really happen one gender ends up both stronger and smarter? Bye bye. You probably won't be here long.)"
- But I still hear that girl's comment in my ear...
"Sex IS disgusting. It is the worst sin, for reference. It takes two to lie, are not men are disgusting enough to fall for it each time? Was Adam and Eve not blamed for eating the apple, even if the snake hint them the advice? They were told not to eat that apple, fiction or no fiction... It is still an example nonetheless. Women are not sluts or disgusting, thank you. This is reference to men in GENERAL, actually half / most of the men there were in this room were pretty smart."
- Vanishes both mysteriously and cooly
2006-12-12 02:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by albinic_shadow 2 · 1⤊ 7⤋