My best friend and i had a fallout at the begining of this year and we weren't friends 4 months but we fixed it by now. She says she's my best friend but its obvious to every one else that she likes this chick she became friends with when we had that fight more than me and ever since she has been treating me second class.
Its really annoying me but i dont want to stop our friendship cuz b4 she was the best friend i'd ever had. But only a few days ago she ditched me 4 her (new) best friend and left me with these chicks that i didn't really like that much and then gets annoyed at me becuase i was upset at her.
what should i do??? should i just not be her friend or what??
2006-12-11 17:56:26 · 13 answers · asked by Lostfairytale 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Perhaps you can just wait and let her come to you if she wants to hang out , then in the mean time , why not just widen your circle of best friends , you can have many of them.
2006-12-11 18:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have almost the same problem with you, except you and I are sex-opposite and we never break apart for some time. Mine is what I think is my best friend because i never had a talk so good with any other people, but lately he's also treating me second class, he doesn't wanna talk too much to me.
what i mean is it's normal, we can't force it. I once tried, but it's all in vain. I think you need to let it go with the flow, but don't really follow the flow. Like what I do. I let him do whatever he wants, and in time when he needs help, I'll help him the best I can. Maybe this way, we'll and you'll be close again with time.
2006-12-12 02:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Ben Hanks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time for you to find a new best friend. If this girl was a true friend you would have no doubt about it! Sometimes things just change in life. And so do friends. But when God closes one door, He always opens another. Good luck. Peace Out! And God Bless!
2006-12-12 02:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ramosfam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends are hard to come by. Speak with her and advise her that you're not comfortable with the way things are. Ask her to sort out what she wants and move on from there. Among best friends, sometimes disagreements do set-in, do not let them bother you too much! In life there will always be ups and downs. What is important is best friends are hard to come by sometimes.
2006-12-12 02:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is in your question. It is clear that you feel she is not your best friend anymore but you want it back the way it was. Friendships are the same as any other relationship...sometimes they come to an end and you have to move on.
2006-12-12 02:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think she is going to be your best friend if she is treating you like she is. A best friend is a friend forever and she is not your best friend. Stop trying to be her best friend and find someone else who is deserving of your friendship.
2006-12-12 02:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by Dyan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a friend in need is a friend indeed. obviously this guy plays u the fool.after 4 mths apart,thing could be changing a lot,best friend could be no longer best friend.u r better leave this guy n maintain normal friend only.
best wishes.
2006-12-12 02:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do better than that. I'm sure there are other friends. I fell out with my friend of seven years and now i have a new set. It's notthe end of the world. move on. I'm sure if she's a real good friend, she'll come to you.
2006-12-12 03:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both have grown apart. Just move on and find a new friend. You can still be friends, just have other options.
2006-12-12 02:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheer up man u have whole world for u .Dont be so much stressed with such minor things.Keep style on your hips and keep smiles on your lips and see pretty girls wink at u even on lonliest trips.
God bless
2006-12-12 02:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by mans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋