Did you know -----misscarages?

Question

Did you know that Out of everytwo women there is One misscarage? Why is this, were so advanced, isnt there something they should try doing about this? Maybe collecting the fetus and doing scans or tests? Why don't they tell you more when you are having a misscarage, all they told me that my cervix is open so im probably going to have a misscarage.. and then at 2:27 I felt something comming out of this little hole I have which I didnt even know it came out of! it was only about a nail length out and I thought it was just swolleness but then I squated on the tolit and pulled and my baby was laid to rest in my hand. I phoned the hospital and cried myway through this phone call about what should I do now? I have a baby in my hand and I'm to scared to move and I don't want to just through it away? Why am I still getting bad cramps and I'm still dilated and Im bleeding like crazy. Sorry about all the questions at once, It only happened last night.

Oh.. I went for an ultrasound there was nothing left inside me, when I ahd my contractions I pushed everything out. I dont need a D$C because there is nothing else inside me. I do have a healthy relationship, I just have parinoia. I hope people in the world can stop going through misscarages and doctors find a reason or something to stop this from happening.. becuse its a horrible painful thing and they see it everyday and they treat it like its nothing.. they didnt even tell me how it was going to happen. The lady I phoned last night gave me more information about it then all 8 doctors Ive seen in the last day. I've seen so many I dont rememebr there faces or names. I was checked many times and I was just unprepared by this and it was awaken a shock in me that wont go away, I am so horirbly dissastified with doctors now aday.

Also.. how can you not notice a fetus comming out of you? It's cord attached to it was painful pushing out.. how can you just not realize this because its not just blood it wasnt even touched with blood. It was a grey sack that was attached to this cord that had blood inside it. It pushed out like taking a number two..its something you just don't not notice. I can't even think that some women could miss this.

OH P.s Im laying my baby fetus into the ground in a heart shaped box with family pictures of all the people who love the baby fetus and a note from me and my husband. and also a necklace that I was going to give her/him when it got older.

Answer 1

the cramps were contractions and if Ur cervix opened the next time u get pregnant u my have to get a procedure in which they put in a couple stiches to keep ur cervix closed and then they remove them when ur nine months.
U WILL BE IN MY PRAYERS TONITE. ((hugs))

Answer 2

I am truly sorry about your loss. The truth is they have done studies on the reasoning and have found that 99% of those who have a miscarriage it is due to the fact that the body detects a defect with the fetus and removes it from the woman. I suppose it is a way to ease the pain of loss, lose the child early or carry it for nine months only to find it was born dead or with some terrible defect that only allows the child to live for a few moments after birth. I know either way would be very hard to deal with, but which would be worse to deal with? Just something to think about.

Answer 3

There are all sorts of reasons for miscarriages, and it may be that even the doctor will have no specific reason for you. You've basically been through labor, which is why you're still hurting and bleeding. You'll need medical attention to finish this, they have to clean out the placenta and everything so you'll heal properly.

It's terribly sad, and you have every reason to mourn...but after reading your other posts, I'd say it's a blessing for you, given that you're young and in an unstable, unhealthy relationship. Take hold of the chance that you have now to create a strong, good life.

Answer 4

I am very sorry to hear of your lost. I have had 3 miscarriages. Every one of them was just as devastating as the first. I had to have a D & C done with the 2nd miscarriage. It is hard, and it is devastating.. I was so tore up, for weeks and months to follow. But only time heals this pain. It took me six months to even talk about the first one. But I have been there were you are now, so if you need someone to talk to you can email me @ [e-mail] *~God Bless~*

Answer 5

I totally empathize your pain. I have gone through your situation. I remember everything happening very quickly within days of each other. A few days after alerting my boyfriend and parents the news of my pregnancy I miscarried. You really need to get your uterus cleaned, I believe they call it a D and C. My heart truely goes out to you.

Answer 6

Oh that is so terrible honey I am truthfully sorry for your loss and I don't have any advice maybe call a counselor and seek professional help on how to deal with all this at once. thats sad I cried reading your story.

Answer 7

you would be unable to, it incredibly is the quick answer. A miscarraige is natures way of coping with a toddler that may no longer going to type exact. although, in case you're purely six weeks , you have a minimum of yet another six weeks to pass previously you may start to take a seat back slightly. in simple terms take it common, stay your existence as prevalent. do no longer bend, stretch or improve something. provide up smoking. provide up alcohol. No marathon working, no long days on your feet, in simple terms be comfortable with your self. there is not any would desire to wrap up in cotton wool, yet in simple terms proceed to focus on the effective individual interior you, and you would be nice. I wish you nicely.

Answer 8

I am so sorry that you had to lose your child in such a traumatic way. How far along were you? I too think that with all of the medical advancements there should be more that can be done to prevent such tragedies.

Answer 9

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you will have problem free pregnancies in the future. But about your question, I read somewhere a while back that alot of the time, women dont even know that they are pregnant when they have miscarriages, they think its just their period.

Answer 10

Im soo sorry that happened to you, I couldnt even imagine how that would feel. But you are right you think that they would do something about all the miscarriages.