My bf abused me in june coz he saw me dancing with another guy. He broke up n told me im a cheap gurl along with abuses . then he stopped contacting me. But after a month he started contacting through text mesgs. Again not very pleasant mesgs. but now on 14th nov he again abused me as he kept asking me through text mesgs if i had gone on a date with another guy. But i kept silent and he again abused me through mesgs tht im a prosti**te. He told me he wants to slap me n abuse me . When 2 mesgs were sent by chance to him by me, He abused me n mesgd tht if another mesg i send...he will break my hands n abused me. Why does he abuse me???I replied tht im very much scared of him n to keep away from me . He considers me to be a very cheap gurl whereas i was with my parents when he thought me to be dating with some guy as his friends told him so.He only trusts his friends n they keep telling him im bad.NOW HE SENT 2 MESGS ON 2DEC.I MESG-HOW'S UR BF?2-I MAY B SILENT BT DEEP IN MY HEART I MISS U
2006-12-11 17:48:59 · 11 answers · asked by ciendriella 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If he didn't contact you for a month and then he started again, then it must be possible that after 12 days he will.
I hope he doesn't! He sounds completely unbalanced.
2006-12-11 17:55:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've asked this question before. What's the answer you're looking for? That somehow magically this abusive creep will become the man of your dreams? It ain't gonna happen. The way he treats you is not love. When you find real love with someone else, you'll know it. Stay far away from this guy. Take him out of your system so you can't send him a message "by chance." Inform the police. Talk to a domestic abuse group. Your life will be in danger if you keep up the contact with him. A guy like this could kill you! Watch out!
2006-12-12 01:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any relationship is based on trust,faith and fidelity.I he saw you dancing with another guy and started abusing itself shows that he does not trust you.In this modern world we meet many people, talk to them,share our ideas and also discuss about various issues.But love is something that is possible with only one person and that is eternal.Your relation with the guy seems full of problems.Mind you this is just the beginning!!!! If there are abuses in a relationship it cannot be normal,it may turn out to be a flop.If violence enters in a relationship thats the end.How can a person who really loves you does not trust you and abuses you? Also if he becomes too much possessive about you he will doubt your every move?Try to explain him that you love him and him only and no one else.If he still abuses you then it is better that you make a sweet end of the relationship.Good luck and all the best.
2006-12-12 02:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by sheru_715 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't respond, get a different number and stay clear. Nobody is worth allowing that kind of treatment. Have more respect for yourself and the people around you. From what I have seen, abuse does not usually only happen to you, it generally moves to the people around you. In one form of abuse or another, is that what you really want for the people who truely care for you. Because he doesn't care about you, seems he more interested in controlling you.
Good luck.
2006-12-12 01:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by sgtpatti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully he won't contact you again. He sounds scary! Don't contact him and hopefully he will leave you alone. It's a good sign that he hasn't texted you for 12 days. Maybe he's stopped. And remember those mean things he said are so far from true! He just has some serious personal issues.
2006-12-12 02:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Christy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find someone kinder and gentler to date. Or at least someone who likes dominating you without real physical and mental abuse. Perhaps you can find someone for role play. This guy is a looser though and he might really harm you.
2006-12-12 02:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget you forget him. (Introduce him to your friends, and get him new friends, or tell him to forget them, they aren't really his friends, you are and you are more important and if you were so bad he'd feel it.)
Wait forget that I just read your message you take those friends of yours and get them to beat the crap outta his friends. They are obviously influencing him now you get up girl and tell him you've outgrown him and that he can go watch a nice cartoon do NOT tell him you are affraid of him tell him you've given up waiting and beat the crap out of him too, only... with a whip? Bite him, kick him in the nuts. Tell him that guy you were dancing with actually knows how to treat a lady.
2006-12-12 01:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by albinic_shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never contact dis man..if he doesnt respect u and trust u ..den ders no meaning to carry on dis realtionship...
2006-12-12 02:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm don't text him back. just ignore him he is is not worth it if he abuses you and call the police and have him arrested for assualt and terroristic threats
2006-12-12 01:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by fireeyedmaiden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is insecure and probably has a guilty conscience. get a restraining order on him and be done with him. also change your number.
2006-12-12 01:59:24 · answer #10 · answered by Jeremy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋