I am a 33 year old woman married with children - houseslave!!!! Is there any way to run away with out being found ??? I mean with computers and the web how do you change your idenity so no one can find you??
2006-12-11 17:14:35 · 7 answers · asked by suzanne w 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am a 33 year old woman married with children - houseslave!!!! Is there any way to run away with out being found ??? I mean with computers and the web how do you change your idenity so no one can find you?? There is not physical abuse but I have no way of being me any more .. I am so tired and a few days away wont help.., But if I leave I will be tracked down . He wont just let me leave. I am a slave with nothing of my own.
2006-12-11 18:19:33 · update #1
that is not a simple thing to do today, technology keeps a pretty tight leash on us if we let it, stay off the computer, don't work, don't pay taxes, to have anything in your name, just to name a few, however, that really does not work to your advantage, answer to your question, about the only way you can run away and not be found, live on the dark side of Jupiter, but you would still have the transportation ticket to deal with, You will have to work at it in order to stay below the radar. good luck
2006-12-11 17:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by jh452004 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I assume there is some degree of humor in your question. If I am wrong then the next question is... is there physical abuse? Domestic Violence?
If so, get the hell out.
But if there is some humor in what you write, maybe a bit of fantasy on your part will satisfy your desire to leave. Perhaps you could pretend to run away for a day or even a weekend and then come back with renewed enthusiasm (well, that might be going a bit far but you get the idea).
Tell us a bit more though. I could be a more thoughtful in my reply if I knew more.
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Okay, so there is no physical abuse, what's wrong with being found in that case? You do have a free will. Are you afraid that if you leave, he will track you down and harm you? Is this relationship worth trying to fix? Sounds messed up to me but I'm also hearing that there is some consent on your part to have things be the way they are -- or there was consent at some point. Things go from bad to worse when you let people get away with stuff. Maybe you could benefit from learning how to set better boundaries?
Does any of this help? I'm just not sure how to answer you because I'm not getting that clear a picture of what the problem is. Wish I could be more helpful.
2006-12-12 02:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by DearAbby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you are serious? you want to leave your kids? Well I won't be too judgmental but maybe you need to demand your rights as mother and wife and do some things for yourself. Hobbies, job, school I don't know. I'm not quite sure running away will solve those problems and for sure it will create new ones. If you don't want to take my advice then check out www.escapeartist.com That web site will answer your question.
Good Luck.
2006-12-12 01:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow looks like you are very stressful with houseworks and children. As long as money is not a problem to you and you can be heartless towards your children then should be no problem. Tour around the whole world and maybe you will find others more stressful than you too!
2006-12-12 01:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by Sunflower 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
never use your real identity on the web for one....also you can be found by the job's you have...any time you fill out a W2...especially since kids are involved...leaving state line with his kids...can get you in a world of trouble..
2006-12-12 11:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order , move far away , get a cell phone , change your name , exercise you rights to privacy from your employer , pay bills with money orders, and get a gun. sounds like you gotta run,also contact battered womens they have networks that can help you disapear.
2006-12-12 01:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by looken4answers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can meet someone online, run away with him, change your name, your ssi, id and start a new life but your finger might give your way later on in life
2006-12-12 01:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by johnlee1049 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋