how many ppl ure bf, or gf or husband or wife have slept with before meeting u??
does it bother u how many partners they have had???
2006-12-11 16:49:48 · 24 answers · asked by shrimpy 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well, if it is a large number, I think most people would be a bit bothered by it.
And I think most people do care to know the exact number, given that humans have a curious nature.
2006-12-11 16:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Nope but the one he had kids with even though he didn't marry her bothers me sometimes because she still feels like he needs to know every time she poots but as far as how many people he has been with no i don't care i have probably been with more
2006-12-12 00:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES I MOST DEFINITELY CARE, BUT NOT BECAUSE OF INSECURITY.
I CARE BECAUSE YOU CAN EVER BE TOO CAREFUL THESE DAYS OF ALL OF THE SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES FLOATING AROUND OUT HERE.
LIFE IS ALREAYD TOO SHORT TO DIE OVER A FEW MINUTES OF PHYSICAL PLEASURE.
I REALLY GET UPSET IF I FIND OUT MY MAN WAS NOT PROTECTED WITH HIS FORMER PARTNERS.
IT'S A DEFINITE RED FLAG FOR ME IF A MAN HAS BEEN WITH NUMEROUS WOMEN.
THE SAD PART IS THAT SO MANY PEOPLE ARE ENTIRELY TOO DEFENSIVE ABOUT WHAT THEY HAVE DONE AND WHOM THEY HAVE DONE IT WITH.
I SAY IF YOU WEREN'T ASHAMED TO DO IT, THEN YOU SHOULDN'T BE ASHAMED TO TALK ABOUT IT. FAIR IS FAIR. IF YOUR PARTNE5R IS BEING 100% OPEN WITH YOU, THEN YOU OWE YOUR PARTNER THE SAME COURTESY.
GOOD LUCK AND BY ALL MEANS, BE CAREFUL AND USE CONTROCEPTIVES.
GOD BLESS!
2006-12-12 03:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a past. It's the future that should matter. If something like that bothers someone they shouldn't be with that person.
2006-12-12 00:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by *~BETHY~* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't even think about it ,I am sure they had life before meeting me and I had some other people in my life before meeting them as well ..
so why bothering???
2006-12-12 00:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it bothered me when I ask my fiance how many and I didn't like the number he told me but its the past and I can't change it.
I love him and hopefully I am the last number on his list!!!!
2006-12-12 00:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, the past is the past. If he has a bad rep and is known for cheating on his gf's b4 me then maybe i would be worried.
2006-12-12 00:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by Thumper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it does bother me, but it shouldn't. It would really bother me if the number of people was very high.
2006-12-12 00:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by Aries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care who he was with before me as long as he doesn't have STDs. What matters to me is what happens when we're together. If he were to sleep with someone while he's with me, that would be entirely different.
2006-12-12 00:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to until I realized that they must have not been good enough for him because he picked me, and now we are married and have 2 beautiful kids.
2006-12-12 00:54:14 · answer #10 · answered by Koozie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋