(1) Live in a city in a developed country, high post job and enjoy material things, people are educated and being professionals; people talk about quality, efficientcy and service, but facing high level of stress and doesn't have very healthy body and mind.
(2) Live in a small town in a developing country, people hardly even speak English, being with a man who doesn't hold high post/qualification but care about you with all his heart, don't have any career opportunity, big shopping centres, or having meals in posh restaurant, and just being a house wife... But health gets better.
Which one will you choose?
2006-12-11 16:39:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I guess in theory you would fulfill your potential more in a city, but some people just don't thrive on the stress. I used to live in a large city and now I live in a small town 400 miles north of the nearest shopping mall- so that's what I choose. I don't think anymore the goal of life is about success on other people's terms, but living the life that you want.
2006-12-11 16:53:52 · answer #1 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a house wife of the first group. think god we don't feel THAT MUCH stress so i think i will stay where I'am . i would be much more stressed out worrying about food rent heat (hope there's no kids). we all want a man that loves us with all his heart but hes got to bring some thing to the table and you made choice #2 look pretty sad.
2006-12-12 01:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2. Quality of life is best for the soul. I just wish I had the guts to actually to that b/c I know I live a #1....how ironic. I am educated enough to know what is best yet I choose not to live it.
2006-12-12 01:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I and my family moved from example one to example two, thinking it would be better but we were shown otherwise. We're now in the process of moving back to the suburbs of pennsylvania after almost 3 years of living in florida. Example one is, in my opinion, the better choice overall and just learning to deal with the stress it causes. I'm happier that way :)
2006-12-12 00:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well check it out theirs only one thing happiness. if im happy been poor and have family values and having my family been there 4 me i would give up all money 4 that. and if money and living a city life and sticking with rest of society makes me happy i would do it. but i would have to say small town and having my family values n have a happy home. money theirs millions of ways to make it family can only have one
2006-12-12 00:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by jose m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bigger city has better hospitals. I'll live near a bigger city.
2006-12-12 00:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by Paul H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
small town stress free
2006-12-12 00:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by ITS ME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd choose the first one.
2006-12-12 01:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by Shawn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋