My friend just told me the other day that she is bi......and then she told me taht she likes to watch porn and stuff.....I was kind of grossed out....so I dont know if I should stlll be her fiend or not?...What should I do??!!
2006-12-11 16:28:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you cant handle what she talks about then dont talk to her anymore.
2006-12-11 16:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would it be better if she told you she had cancer? Or that she was having a second head grafted to her shoulders?
So, your friend is bisexual. It doesn't change who she is, and it doesn't change why you became friends in the first place. You'll find out soon enough if she likes you "in that way", and if you don't feel the same then all you have to tell her is that you're flattered but don't feel the same way. (Unless you do, and that is the source of your problem.)
There are better reasons to dump friends than just their sexuality. Just take this as an opportunity to get to know more about another side of life, and give your friend your support. (Well, at least until she turns out to be an axe murderer - then you might want to reevaluate your friendship.)
(And for those that asked, Biosexual means "if it moves, f*** it"... j/k)
2006-12-12 01:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are just because your friend is bi, it will change nothing about your relationship. She will not try to come onto you that is only a stereotype. So what if she likes to watch porn and enjoy women? Its a harmless way to express her sexuality and how she feels. Things could be a whole lot worse. She could have told you she was addicted to drugs or something. Put things in perspective and dont judge your friend differently for who she is.
2006-12-12 00:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Brian J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way. ... you were her friend before you told you, right? What difference does it make if she's bi-sexual? Is she hitting on you?
A good friend is NOT something you should throw aside lightly. I would, personally, think that having a different sexual orientation than you wouldn't matter at all. I mean, you have guy friends, right? Guys look at porn... it's in their nature... so do a lot of straight women.... I, myself, have looked at it on occaision... and even OWN some of it.... doesn't make me a bad person.... and it doesn't make your friend one either.
Do yourself a favor and keep your friend. You may find yourself desperately in need of one someday, just as we all have.
2006-12-12 00:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is BIO-SEXUAL well if she is BIO-SEXUAL u might want to leave her along because thats some new and unexamined sexuality! But if u menat bi-sexual then maybe you should talk to her about it! Tell her how you feel! Then you guys should kiss and make up. And then kiss again, and then you should go down on her to show her its ok! Let her go down on you to show her u are comfortable with it. Trust me u will like it.
P.S. If she tries to sit on your face breath through your mouth!
2006-12-12 00:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual preference is not a bias for friendship. Ok, so you are grossed out by it. But as long as your friend doesn't come onto you, should you freak out. She is your friend and a friend doesn't need to have a specific sex attached to it and therefore, there is no need to bring sexual orientation or preference between friends.
2006-12-12 00:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by l_kur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could still be her friend. Just dont be like her. If many of her friends knew she's biosexual, they will also leave her. Just help her up. Dont worry.
2006-12-12 00:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends
are you agianst homosexuality,
are you for it,does your friend act different,
does your friend like you
have you ever liked your friend
if you find that that person has to many weird things about them and you shouldnt be around that type of people, than avoid her
but if not you might be able to become better friends
if you dont feel comfortable around your own friend maybe you shouldn't be friends
maybe you should consider how good your friendship is and how long yall have been friends for
2006-12-12 00:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful in how you react. Its a hard phase for people to go through. I really hurt an old friend of mines feelings by overreacting. I regret it now.
2006-12-12 00:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by Edward M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im bi and i like porn. all of the people that i told are still my friends. ive even had them ask if they could watch. thats the weird thing.
2006-12-12 00:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by death_of_faries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be such a prude.. how will it even effect you!!! theres nothing you should do except accept it and realise thats its really none of your buisness....i think good on her for being so intouch with her own sexuality.. it shows maturity.. obvioulsy something you are lacking if your going to be "grossed out"... i dont mean to be rude but seriously.. grow up.
2006-12-12 00:34:09 · answer #11 · answered by sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋