I'm not sure what's wrong with me. I have changed and started to think money is everything. All I see in my eyes is $. My personality has changed too. I don't even know who I am now. I use everyone who surrounds me to archieve my goals/desires. I'm nice to people, but I feel like I'm using them in some ways. I want to get back to those people who discouraged me and treated me bad before - I will not let them get away with it. I think people in this society turned me in to a cold-blooded evil person. I think $ is the power, and I can turn people to be my bitc*hes - that's what people did to me. I lost my girlfriend because she said I changed. My friends said I'm always not happy and not satisified with the things around me. Am I pretty much have to go this way for the rest of my life?
2006-12-11 16:28:04 · 6 answers · asked by itguru5354 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
repression issues from childhood
2006-12-11 21:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Byzantino 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi itguru535,
This is what happens to most emotional and modest people.
In first part of their life, they see the world as great and beautiful thing. They keep on being good & nice with almost everyone they meet.
Then comes a certain point, somebody treats them very badly because of something, or they are ridiculed / humiliated.
They change their spects. They get into a burning desire to change that situation. The emotion of revenge is the only fire and fuel for their motives, motions, actions.
Nothing wrong, survival of the fittest is the only rule which really RULES, but keep in mind that the world is made of people and you have to interact with them. No gadgets and electronic devices are important, they are just a media to interact.
Then why should we have such imbalance that we "Pay the bad things forward?"
Balance always has happiness although worldly success is at extremes only.
Choose whichever. Its You that matters. Choose and act. Don't feel any guilt for any option you choose,
Hope this gives you a brief idea,
Aniruddha
http://aniruddhas.com
2006-12-12 00:48:25 · answer #2 · answered by aniruddha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUH...YOU ARE DEPRESSED.
Not to mention you want it all in life, who doesnt right?
Money is not everything, but you need it.
Perhaps yu should take a drive in poorer neighborhoods and realise that even if you only made 40,000 a year, you are doing better than most.
When I feel like Im rich (which I m not) I do this, usually I go downtown and try to get humble again.
2006-12-12 00:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best revenge is living well, unless you rub it in peoples faces..then your revenge is being childish and refusing to grow..that just gives them the power to say "told ya so"
2006-12-12 00:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by rynay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get therapy
2006-12-12 00:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
give me ur money and all things will get better
2006-12-12 00:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by john s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋