How much notice do I have to give my boyfriend..I want him to move out.?

Question

How much notice realistically, and legally do i have to give him? I own the house. I am asking him to move out soon because he wants his son to move in with us, I say no, this is causing a lot of tension between us, but I will probably wait till after the holidays to tell him he needs to move. There is no violence going on bewtween him and I
He has been very uncaring and inconsiderate towards me lately. he went out with his friends when I was sick, he played loud music when I was tryng to study, he invites people over without seeing what I am doing first, etc. I think all 3 of us will be happier if he leaves.
there is no lease, and the son only visits on weekends..son is 12 and emotionally, cognitively and learning disabled, with a history of violence and is not getting the help he needs, I need to remove myself from this situation.

Answer 1

Hi!

You have gotten some really good answers and advise from others in regards to providing 30 days notice to your boyfriend to move out, sending the notification certified mails as proof, changing the locks after he has moved out, checking out the laws in your city & state as laws are different in different areas.

But I wanted to pass something on that happened to someone I knows mother. She had someone living in her home, no lease, no rental agreement, nothing. This person obviously had done something like this before.......she got this person's mother to get angry with them, not violent as in hitting or threatening, just yelling at them, and during the heat of the yelling this woman would call the police and say that she is being threatened, being yelled at, fearing for her life, etc. and all the police could hear was this person's mother yelling in the background. All she wanted was the woman to move out of her house that she owned, but this other woman was devious and ended up getting a restraining order against the homeowner, all her grown children & their spouses. So basically she was kicked out of her own home by a renter.

She ended up having to take her to court, was out of her home for 6 weeks, and when judgement day finally came, the judge gave this "renter" 2 weeks to vacate the premises. After 2 weeks she hadn't left the house so with the judgement the homeowner was finally able to get her out forcibly with police help.

The reason I'm telling you this is because you want to keep every thing as "peachy keen" as possible so nothing can come back on you.

Other than that, I think you're pretty well set as far as what others have told you to do.

Best of luck to you! :o)

Answer 2

Legally you only need to give him a reasonable time frame to find a new place since there is no lease and you own the home. That time frame can vary greatly under the law. I would suggest 30 days. Mail him a certified letter stating the terms by which you wish him to leave (i.e. 30 days from a specified date). The reason for mailing him the letter is to have proof that you gave him time to find a new place to live without placing hardship on him.

Answer 3

Tell him SOON the relationship is over and you want him out of the house by December 30th. If the house is yours and he does not have any financial ties to it or you, simply tell him. dont go into great detail but be able to give him some facts (not general statements).
Once he is out, change the locks and dont let him back in. If he wants to talk, meet him in a restaurant. Just be firm, not nasty.
You may feel that doing that before Christmas will hurt him and you. Dont wait............just do it if you feel justified. Be prepared to tell him (if its true) that you need some space to rethink about the relationship and him and its better if he pack up and leave. I dont believe you have any legal obligations unless there is something your not telling us.

Answer 4

Since he is living in your house and there is no lease, it is understood that he has a periodic tenancy which is a 30 day term. You will need to give written 30 day notice. Mail it to him certified mail, return receipt requested so that you have proof that he received it. (You can mail it to him at home, restricted delivery makes it so that he has to sign for it himself only) or send it to work. If he lays a hand on you, call the police immediately and they will remove him from your home right away. Good luck! (And dont move in anymore boyfriends, big mess isn't it?)

Answer 5

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Answer 6

100% depends on your state, give him notice now ASAP and then go talk to somebody that knows the rules in your city and state. He is a resident and has certin rights. I know in Cali they almost have 6 months to live from the last they they start paying rent. You can get a restraining order from a judge and then he will have to move out.

Answer 7

30 days

Answer 8

If he is not on the lease and you don't have a contract what ground would he have to stand on. I would give him some notice just because it is the right thing to do, but as far as legal standing he does not have any.

Answer 9

30 days is typical but if his name is not on a lease 2 weeks

Answer 10

30 days and 30 nights