I always fall for guys who don't give me attention, who often lie to me, who care more about themselves than they do me, and who are too unavailable. I don't know why other guys aren't attractive to me...it's like their very boring or too predictable...not a challenge. I want the bad boy to just be a good boy with me. What is wrong with me?
2006-12-11 16:23:07 · 7 answers · asked by sophia 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Is this a form of masochism?
2006-12-11 16:35:07 · update #1
well maybe you should look for good boyz and u wouldnt have this problem. why girls think they can change bad boys into good yall girls need to quit that and value ur self more some girls dont have a brain
2006-12-11 16:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by jose m 4 · 8⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutly nothing wrong with you!!! Girls are always attracted to the bad boy but when we get with them we always end up with our hearts broken! My suggestion would be to find some really good guys that are friends and think of them as possible boyfriends cause sometimes the best romantic relationships start out as friends. and if you cant see this person yet take a break from guys and maybee you just havent found THE guy yet give him time but dont stop looking either!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-12-12 01:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your afraid of commitment. Honestly, I used to be like that too when I was younger, end of high school to halfway through college. Then I got my priorities straight, realized that I am not going to get what I want (healthy relationship, family, etc.) if I keep dating guys like that. I have dated some really nice guys since I made that realization. You just need to figure out what you want and go from there. If you are not looking for a commitment then maybe the bad boys aren't such a bad idea.... especially since you don't want to hurt people unnecessarily.
2006-12-12 00:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by Angel3192 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
look back and view your environment. was your dad that role model? we get out of a relationship what we put into it.other men are interested but you don't take time to give them the chance. the bad boys are not always bad however, some are. to each there own. its your life make the most of it. try the nice guys who knows? maybe you will like one.
2006-12-12 00:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by shiznick 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to kiss 100 frogs, to find the Prince charming...don't worry...just make more initiative...if you like some caring person...go for it...ask him to go out...who care? maybe it will come up something special :)
Lately I'm thinking about this problem too...but i blame myself... I have to be more self confident...and find right guy., not indifferent jerks.
2006-12-12 11:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by invisible1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your Dad give you lots of attention? Because women whose fathers were not that attentive often find themselves attracted to inattentive men as adults.
Go to counseling. A trained counselor can help you work through whatever issues you may have.
2006-12-12 00:29:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
try being your self it works . my opion?
2006-12-12 00:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋