i have a friend who is gonna commit suicide how do i get him to not do it.everyone hates him and doesnt like him (well except me obviously) but i dont know how to get him to not kill himself.
2006-12-11 16:03:32 · 16 answers · asked by halloweenjacklyn49 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well also i guess i forgot to mention that even his parents hates him
2006-12-11 16:12:40 · update #1
have a heart to heart with him. talk to him, and tell him there's still good in the world. at the moment it may not seem like it, but just tell him to look at the simple things. the stars in the sky, the sunsets and sunrises. life's worth living for. throw back your head and laugh, close your eyes and dance, because though life is rough, you can always find the good side. and make sure he's seeing someone, be it a school councelor or a psychologist. suicide's not worth missing your entire life for.
2006-12-11 16:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by polaris grl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend if things are so bad that he is thinking like that, it must be the absolute bottom and it can only be better tomorrow or next week or next month. The important thing is to get him to think of good things that really will happen down the road. Do you know why? If it is a person or a job or something that can change, keep telling him over and over it will be better tomorrow. good luck and give your friend a hug from me!!!!
2006-12-12 00:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by davidswoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help him find some one who is a professional to talk to him, a teacher, a school councilor, If that doesnt work as much as he may hate you tell his parents...the most important thing to remember about being a good friend...is that you arent there to tell them what they WANT to hear you have to tell them what they NEED to hear same goes for doing the right thing...Do what you can to help in the right way...maybe his parents or parent can get him help by finding some one who he can talk to about these feelings that are all rumbling around inside like a hurricane...good luck honey...
2006-12-12 00:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by Andie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him some help, school councilor, parents, police, someone trained needs to get involved. Suicide is a cry for help and your friend needs not only you right now but more. If you really care you will get someone ells involved.
2006-12-12 00:10:39 · answer #4 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him all the good things in life, and tell him you could not live without him. some people say they are going to commit suicide, but really just need attention. Does he have plenty of attention? maybe you go suggest counseling...if he is afraid to go, maybe you could go with him. If it get to out of hand call the police......good luck honey!
2006-12-12 00:09:58 · answer #5 · answered by Eva Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about all the people who care for him, tell him about all the consequences for his actions. and tell him most of all that there is always hope. Jesus Died in the most painfull way possible so that he could have a relationship with Jesus. tell him about all the wonderful things to live for and all the beautiful things in the world. Tell him about Jesus!!!
I will pray for him.
2006-12-12 00:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by 1-4-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not going to kill himself. but i would call 911 and get him into the hospital. he is just looking for attention. but if he is serious make sure he uses a high power rifle. it will make a real mess but will do the job!
2006-12-12 00:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to his family. if all else fails have him committed. i know that sounds mean but better him be somewhere that can help him then dead. good luck to u. i hope that u can help Ur friend
2006-12-12 00:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by lilmisspriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, remember that YOU are not resposible for whatever your friend chooses to do!!! All you can do is be there for him, try your best to soothe him, PRAY WITH HIM, say whatever you can and tell him you'll be there for him no matter what (because you obviously care deeply) but PLEASE PLEASE remember that he is obviously not in a mentally healthy, and it is not your responsibility to fix it!!
2006-12-12 00:08:07 · answer #9 · answered by Christines256 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to coax him n gt him sum professional help n let him kno that he not here to please everyone,life is not meant to mk others happy,,he needs to mk himself happy b 4 anyone else,,try n brighten him up n look at the brighter n better things in life,look at new yrk on flava flav,,everyone hates her n she still thinks she's fabolous,lol good luck
2006-12-12 00:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by FabOlouS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋