Am I normal?

Question

When I have sex with my boyfriend, I am dry and I don't think that I come but still get the sensations. I am 20 and am wondering.

Answer 1

maybe your G-spot is not estimulated. increase the length of ur foreplay.

this are techniques to estimulate G-spot


Lie back with your knees pressed up to your chest. In this position, your vaginal depth will shorten and even small fingers should be able to reach the G-spot. With a partner, lie on your side with one leg drawn up to your chest as your partner enters you from the rear. He should be able to hit the spot.

The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch. Gently stroking is not likely to get any results. It's more like massaging a pea under a mattress - one has to compress the flesh to find it.

Insert fingers and bend them gently up, around and behind the pubic bone. Beyond the rather rough-surfaced tissue immediately behind her pubic bone, your fingertips will encounter a very soft, smooth area. Go very slowly and let her tell you what she feels as you explore the smooth area, which will feel to you like the inside of a very slippery mitten. When you straighten your fingers and reach further inside, you'll encounter a hard, rubbery structure that feels like an erect nipple pointing south. This is her cervix. The G-spot is somewhere just his side of the cervix, about an inch beyond the mitten, in the flesh immediately in front of the vagina.

Imagine you're holding a tennis ball on those two of three inserted fingers. An area about the size of a grape in the center of the tennis ball is what you're trying to reach. It can be anywhere along that two-or-three inch long area between the pubic bone and the cervix. Explore slowly, allowing for feedback front he woman - let her guide your fingers with her words if she can feel the stimulation. The G-spot responds to pressure rather than to touch. Gentle stroking is not likely to find it. It's more like massaging a pea under a mattress - one has to compress the flesh to find it.

When you reach in from the front with the woman on her back, the heel of your hand is over her clitoris while your fingers hook around her pubic bone. Pull upwards, as if you're trying to lift her off the bed. Do this with the same sort of rhythm you'd use *******, and keep your fingers hooked, so they press deep into the tissue. Once you know where it is you can try using your penis on it, but for good G-spot orgasm, she may prefer your hand. In face-to-face intercourse, the penis may not stimulate the spot enough to do any good, although some positions, such as the one where the women draws her knees close to her chest, may increase the changes for a G-spot orgasm.

Answer 2

I thought you knew about the brand of lubricant entitled "wet". You gave someone else that advice in another question. Why don't you take your own advice.

Maybe the sex isn't too great with your man though. You are too much too young to be drying up during sex. You need to get with someone who knows what he is doing and you need to get comfortable with your partner so that you can let yourself go and enjoy the experience. Sometimes when you haven't let your guard down sexually you won't be able to explore all the things you want to, you'll be shy, self conscious, and holding back.

When you and him get some time together it will get better, if he is special to you and he is committed to pleasing you. If he isn't then he won't and you'll have to wait for future relationships to experience mind blowing, dripping wet sex.

Damn... makes me shiver just thinking about it.

Good luck

Answer 3

This is normal. It takes a lot to get "turned-on" physically. You may be turned on mentally and ready for sex, but your body may need more time. If you think something might be wrong, talk to a doctor, but I think your body needs to be turned on a little more before sex. You'll enjoy sex even more if you are not dry. Try some foreplay (touching, kissing, oral sex, etc.)

Answer 4

Some women do need to use additional lubriation, it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. and I think there is only about 25-35% of women who actually have an orgasam through internal stimulation. Try stimulating the clitoris during sex and see if that helps you orgasm. You are normal, don't worry.

Answer 5

maybe its your boyfriends fault

no but seriously sometimes women dont reach thier sexual peak until later in life, i couls be your body isnt fully developed to enjoy sex fully. its either that or subconciesly you really dont want to have sex with your b/f

Answer 6

mayb ur not fully comfortable with him. or mayb he just isnt quite hitting the spot for u.