this guy at my school who attends they same school as i, always stares at me and i feel its disrespectfu; and i feel embarrassedl. he has done plenty of times ,everytime im by myself, he could even be in a group of girls and he does it and when he's by himself. he never says anything which perplexes me.i looked at him one time when he did and he continued to stare. but for some strange reason he speaks to me in public everytime i might happen to see him around. i dont understand, does he dislike me for some strange reason?
2006-12-11 15:18:04 · 8 answers · asked by Nikki S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the way it sounds, he actually may like u, cause if i didint like somone i would avoid them and make no eye contact
2006-12-11 15:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by darkliquid_dreams 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
nikki,
if you truely do feel at unease with this guy, then may i recommend you do the following:
1. have a heart to heart with him (who knows - maybe he loves you at all)
2. go out with him on several dates (over here do not mention the word "NO". consider that word to be prohibited for now).
3. if you see, with your own two eyes, that he does love you then you do consult your pillow on this.
4. on the other hand, if he does irriate you very muuch despite going out with him, just be frank with him and tell him: "Hey Fred, (or whatever name he has), I would appreciate it very much if you would stop staring at me because it makes me uncomfortable.
note: if he gets out of hand, then you have the chance of either to ignore the guy or to go to the principal (or to a teacher) and to report him to the authorities.
good luck.
the conde.
2006-12-12 00:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by conde_c_b 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nikki, he is definitely in love with you and most men show it by actions and not by words.
allow me to give you an example:
one day many years ago, i met a beautiful girl at the last semester of my 6th grade and in september i saw her again
in a few classes and from that date i was in love with her but
because she she meant a lot to me - i did not marry her instead another guy did marry her and i know from speaking to her that she is a happy person.
the message is this: this guy who is staring at you is sending you a very indirect message that he wants to tell you. that message is: I LOVE YOU!!!!
this is my reponse.
feel free to give me 10 points and some comments as well.
2006-12-11 23:54:30 · answer #3 · answered by soar_2307 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons. If he likes you but is shy he may not talk to you but stare. I think you should ask him next time he is alone and get it over and done with.
Honesty is always the best policy.
2006-12-11 23:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by Paula S 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like he likes you, but he is shy. It takes being around people to get him to talk to you. Maybe you could talk to him and see what he does. Then if he keeps this up, even after you try to talk to him and he does nothing, it almost seems scary. First try to talk, if he doesn't want to talk, ask why he is always staring at you.
2006-12-11 23:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Probably the way he was raised. Some countries people stare at everyone and do not find it offensive. Even if you stare back at them!
Hope this helps.
2006-12-11 23:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It sounds like he likes you.
If you really want to know, why don't you ask him?
What's the worst that can happen...? What do you have to lose?
He could hate you, and if he says he dislikes you...then ask him why he spends so much time staring at you.
2006-12-11 23:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by miss_murder88 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
why distress yourself.. Just ask him.. "hey, Fred!, I notice you are always staring at me, it makes me feel uneasy, why?"
Maybe he doesnt get the clue that you dont like it..
2006-12-11 23:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mintee 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋