ok well there is this girl in my gym class and she always picks on me and my firned and a few times when we were playing basketball she kept throwing the ball at my shoulders, my back, and ones she even thought it at my head!!! and it really hurt!! she always piks on me!! my friend and i told our teacher but told her not to do anything cuz then she would keep doing more of that masty stuff and the teacher said that she could be jealuse off us cuz she was pregnant and had a baby at the age of 13 and it is 9 months old now and that her childhood is over and blah blah...well anyway should i feel sorry for her even though she was always acting like a B**** to me and my friend and alot of other ppl??
2006-12-11 15:09:54 · 12 answers · asked by magictanya2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i mean don't u agree that just cuz she made a stupid decision she doesn't hav the right to be mean and pick on ppl!!
2006-12-11 15:19:38 · update #1
I think by treating others like crap she's on her own. If she has messed up her life, she has to deal with it.Trying to make others feel bad isn't going to change her circumstances.
2006-12-11 15:14:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the teacher is making excuses for the person's behavior. Just let go and let God. Pray for her, that God would show her that she needs to stop the pity party and grow up (in maturity, not age). If she had enough strength to say no to having sex at 12 or 13, she would be much better off because she would still be in her childhood and not a premature adult.
She needs God and her family to rally around her and help her see what seeds she has planted and what she will reap when the harvest is ripe for picking.
2006-12-11 15:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by jmbarcus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. you should not feel sorry for her. But dont treat her liek shes treating you. dont aknoledge her actions what so ever. smile at her now and then. she clearly has some problems. if you can, befriend her, thats all she needs. im sure she has enough people in the school calling her a whore, a slut, people who stair at her becuase she had a baby. but rememebr this, she could of had an abortion, she had the courage to carry that life in her, at such a young age, knowing she woudln't live a normal childhood. she just needs a friend.. and people arn't nice so she feels liek she should be a bully.. if people are scared of her, she wont feel out of place.. try your best sweetheart, be th ebigger person and make a friend in her. !!
2006-12-11 15:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure that feeling sorry for her will help her in anyway. You should offer to be her friend. Show her love and kindness. Although she may retaliate for a while longer, in knowing that you are not going to get mad or retaliate against her she should eventually stop. Maybe show an interest in her so that her childhood doesn't have to be over. Maybe she can't run around with her friends, but that is not to say that she can not have visitors. Take a movie and some popcorn over for a visit.
2006-12-11 15:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by blapip23 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, and you shouldn't let her get to you.
It's hard to pretend like you don't care, but alot of bullys target people that let every little thing get to them. They look to bother you, and they know what they say to you will...it makes them feel better to pick on people for either attention on themself, or because their life is ****. Apparently this girl has issues, so you should feel sorry for her. 2 wrongs don't make a right- and she obviously will get- has got what is coming to her. Don't worry about it, and if you really want her to back off tell her to her face, or turn the other cheek.
2006-12-11 15:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by miss_murder88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People decide what they do or not do! You can not feel sorry for a mean person! If a person is trying to correct themselves and do right and others are hard on them, those are the ones to feel sorry for and stand by them. You can pray for the mean ones and then avoid them. You can forgive them and should but try not to place your self in their sites again! Don't try to hurt them just stay away from them!
2006-12-11 15:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
clarify which you're very sorry for appearing in that way and which you meant the assets you stated just to no longer her. Say which you're feeling its unfair and impolite to be watched like a hawk each and all of the time. and timed even. How ridiculous! you're human and you like area and privateness. It could desire to sense very severe and uncomfortable being watched. desire you the ideal love :)
2016-12-30 07:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by belis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no do not feel sorry for her she got pregnant cause she put her self in that situation you didn't and she had not right to acting like a B****** no right the teacher should do something about it cuz that is not right .and if it was me .I tell her what is wrong with you .she not going to stop .
2006-12-11 15:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u should feel sorry for her,but dont go tellin the world what shes like.yeah she could probably be jealous ... but hey dont pity her ... she took the responsibility of getting pregnant and thats her issue. =]
2006-12-11 15:14:43 · answer #9 · answered by janie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has the problem, not you. Try not to let her get to you. Don't show her it bothers you and she will will stop torturing you. It's not you that she is upset at, it's herself. You just happen to be her target if you react to her. She needs to grow up.
2006-12-11 15:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by cripesokay2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋