is it shame, embarassment, or are they just plain in denial?? opinions ppl
2006-12-11 14:35:37 · 16 answers · asked by × 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It depends a lot on the person. Some do it for curiousity or simply because its become the "cool" thing to do. I am sure a few of them are simply in the closet about what their orientation is.
2006-12-11 14:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could be the experimental thing..
i consider myself straight. just recently, i have developed these "curious" bi-thoughts.
ironically enough, i have never been one to want meaningless sex. the goal has always been to find love with the right woman first, then sex later..
but these bi-curioius thoughts are totally opposite. the idea of love with a man doesn't really do anythng for me, but i just think it would be really fun and even exciting to try some sexual experimenting..
not quite sure what that makes me. i don't really like labels.. straight guy, yes, bi? maybe.
i am certainly not in denial that i have these "bi-curious" thoughts.. and i may actually act out on them..
am i bi? i'm honestly not sure.
not sure if that answered your question or not.. but i hope it was at least somewhat informative..
2006-12-11 15:12:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that one action is indicative of what a person is. I don't think because a girl kisses another girl once or twice that it makes them gay or bi, it just shows that they're experimenting. I think you have to base what someone is on their past and what direction they are heading in the future. for example, I wouldn't call someone that has one drink a day an alcoholic. some people might think this because most people don't drink every day. My view of an alcoholic is someone that has multiple drinks every day and makes alcohol more important than other things. That's my opinion though and every one has a different one.
2006-12-11 14:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by Aristippus1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 03:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always to have sex with someone of the same sex wants to say that you are gay or bi
It is only to experiment to know more about sex
2006-12-11 14:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by BELLOTA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By "do things," you mean sex? Otherwise, what you are saying would apply to 99% of the friendships in this world. Women go shopping together, for example, and men watch sports together, etc.
If you're talking about sex, then it depends on whether they're doing it out of attraction or for another reason. I know women who will kiss other women in order to make their boyfriends hornier, for example, but that doesn't mean they are bi-sexual.
2006-12-11 14:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either they may be curious or just really into sex and don't care who it's with. Sex doesn't automatically make you gay. Liking or falling in love with the same sex does. For some people, a hole is a hole, doesn't matter what gender it comes from.
2006-12-11 14:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by bosco6159 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Curiosity.
2006-12-11 16:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy1897 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curiosity.
2006-12-11 14:37:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
denial. there's this whole group of men who have sex with men but say their str8. ted haggard is one. it's the MSM movement. very dangerous group because with denial they are the least likely to use protection then take cooties home to their girlfriends and wives.
2006-12-11 14:41:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋