on one hand,You have one a person who your heart absolutly melts for,and in the other hand you have a perosn that melts for you. which would you choose? My grandmother always said,"you should always choose the one that loves you more one that you love, its always better for them to love you more."
So what happens to the one that your heart beats for, repress them? Ignore it? forget it?
2006-12-11 14:30:54 · 4 answers · asked by chula1 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'd rather have both. I'd want my heart to melt for her, and for hers to melt for mine.
2006-12-11 14:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by Harsh Noise Wall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow this is like my biggest issue in life my 1st ( I will call her J ) was the love of my life and when i was with her I will forget how bad life sucked before her and she told me that the only reason she said "I love you" is because i said it first and she was sick in the hospital and i left with my hart distorted and a less than a week later a girl that looked cool ( call her T ) asked if i wanted to hang out and now she is having my child she is madly in love with me and has proved it time and time again and J has told me that she was very very very very very very very sorry for what she said and would still like to be with me and i belive her but she still never told me she loves me and i am with T and she is having my child i cant just leave her and give her what i got from J ( broken hart ) it wont be right for her even though i have one and dont think i could ever love like that again................................ life sucks..................... hope this helps
2006-12-11 14:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Lil_Ron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your grandma..i would want someone to love me more. Not sure why exactly, but in my current relationship sometimes i feel as if i love him more than he loves me. It sucks feeling like that sometimes.
2006-12-11 14:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by ALF08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart.
2006-12-11 14:45:47 · answer #4 · answered by iamonetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋