See, I am very attracted to her and not just because she is physically smokin', but also because she is intellectual. A few months ago I asked her if we were together because the relationship had been kind of tentative up until that point. she said "of couse we are" and so I took it at that. Well now she and i have a few mutual friends whom I started talking to about our relationship, and they were like, "Wait you're her boyfriend?". They then talked to her about it and she denied ever being in a relationship with me. But when she talks to me she acts as if nothing has happened. So what should I do? Should I confront her? Should I break up with her? Help!!!!
2006-12-11 14:29:35 · 13 answers · asked by Physicist 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
confront her and ask why she is denying it.
if she liked you then she wouldnt do this she should be happy for people to know.
maybe she didnt want people to know just yet as you have only just got together.
but why would she make it out that your a liar.
just sit her down and talk to her.
hope it goes well for you. relationships can be hard when your a teenager.
2006-12-11 14:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by babytots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god. Deja vu. This is happening with some one dude I know. It's funny 'cause of how that dude is, but I don't know you and that's sad. What I'd suggest is you confront her. You should break up with her, but from what she's doing, denying the relationship, is kinda her breaking up with you. That's what I told this other dude I know. But yeah, confront her, ask her what's up. She'll probably act all coy and be like, "Yeah of course we're going out. Why would you think that we're not?" And she may kiss or hug you, which'll be fake. That's how girls act usually (I'm an exception). But yes, confront her. If she acts coy, lay down the law, and break up with her. Tell her it's over. I'm sure you're a good enough guy to find another great girl, right? Move on. Tell me how things work out. Email me: super_chica13_rox@yahoo.com =D
2006-12-11 22:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by ViCKi!™|` 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her about what happened with the friends and ask her if it's true and ask her how she does feel about her. Be careful not to lead that question. When you ask her how she feels about you, leave it at that. If you offer her options on how she feels about you, you won't get a straight answer. If she hesitates, do not interrupt or interject. Let her answer the question. Whatever she says is what you should believe until you have proof to the contrary. If you end a relationship based on what other people say, you are foolish. You are not sleeping with them, you are sleeping with her. It shouldn't matter what they think. If you care about her, you will believe her until SHE gives you reason to believe otherwise.
2006-12-11 23:21:42 · answer #3 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you have a samll glimpse of what Christ must feel like when the folks of this world speak such nonesense about Him. All He wever did and does is love us with the greatest love that anyone can ever immagine. Can you think of what it must have cost God to send His only son Jesus to earth and just be rejected. Well Accept Him into Your LIfe and Live a Greatly Fullfilled Life. Love is not a feeling, but anm act of your will and this girly of yours don't quite love you at all it seems.
2006-12-11 23:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by tracey s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good luck. I would have to ask why would she do that? It sounds like she isn't committed to your relationship or isn't interested in one. Can you break up with her? She says she isn't dating you. I would confront her, but plan to move on.
2006-12-11 22:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by mdono926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitly confront her she shouldnt be doing that thats just not right and if confronting dont hep then break up with her u deserve better
2006-12-11 23:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by la colombiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she denies your relationship, then there's nothing for you to break. if you really like her, just keep on being a friend.
2006-12-11 22:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by ulap 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront first and decide later.
2006-12-11 22:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello, you are too good for her someone want to kept you in the dark then fine someone else o.k you don't need that you are better than that
2006-12-11 23:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by bigmomma3526 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you are hearing that she is denying everything and such maybe yal can mend it and move on
2006-12-12 14:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by rives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋