Everyone tells me she's bad for me. She's done really bad things including cheating. But when I look at other girls, they never measure up in terms of body. She has pefect curves...perfect. And I don't think I could ever get any better than that. So I stay with her though it would be nice to have a girl that wasn't so mean and didn't cheat on me several times.
2006-12-11 14:16:29 · 30 answers · asked by sickblade 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Looks aren't everything. It may seem that way when you're young but if you ever plan on staying with someone for more than a year or two you need something more.
"And I don't think I could ever get any better than that." If there is any bit of doubt in you that she isn't the one, then there is definitely someone out there that is. You seem young, and that's not an insult. Everyone is there once. Give yourself time.
If she cheats on you, does she also abuse (verbally or physically) or degrade you in any way? Do you feel less like a person and more like a pet? Then to quote you, you're whipped. In fact I don't think you're whipped but probably just confused. Maybe she is your first girlfriend, maybe you've been treated even worse in the past? How do you feel when you're with her? And how do you feel when you're not? When you're not with her do you feel free?
Just to go back and recap.. Looks aren't everything especially when you're older. Imagine those perfect curves when she is 40 or 50? They won't be so perfect anymore. Even if you don't leave her don't get locked into the relationship with her.
If she is cheating on you and you know it and she knows that you know then she doesn't respect you. Wouldn't you rather have no one than someone that thinks you're nothing to them?
2006-12-11 14:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by sorrlak 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh boy, don't do that to yourself. It isn't all about a nice body. Get out of that now. How happy is that going to make you and for how long? You are miserable, obviously and no one deserves to be cheated on. If you are a good guy and treat women nicely what makes you think you don't have anything to offer and cannot find another girl who will treat you right and is attractive? You cannot have a relationship with someone who is doing that to you and it won't ever make you happy no matter how good looking she is. You need to find someone you are compatible with and who won't cheat on you even if she isn't as hot on the outside. You will then see that you can care about someone more then this girl and looks didn't mean everything.
2006-12-11 22:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what kind of answers you're going to get to this right? Not to sound corny, but perfect looks shouldn't be the top criteria when looking for a woman. Her personality and mind should rank as equally important if not more so. It's shallow, not to mention moronic, to stay with a woman that treats you horribly just because she's hot. Looks, as you will hopefully understand, aren't everything. As an answerer before me so eloquently put it, grow some balls and move on.
2006-12-11 22:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about this you are measuring others about how they look and you are writting because you are unhappy. How about finding someone who doesn't have the perfect body, but a beautiful spirit and is nice all around. She may not be perfect on the outside, but she could be perfect on the inside and you won't be writing about cheating and feeling bad but about love and feeling great.
2006-12-11 22:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why are ya hanging onto this this girl?Hell man body doesnt mean everything. You gotta let go and find someone that you can communicate with. You have to let this woman go if you know she is cheatin on you. You answered your own ? You want a woman that doesnt cheat on you right? What's more important a woman with a body or one that doesnt cheat. The ball is your corner. Make up which one will it be.
2006-12-11 23:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so off base, pal that is beyond pathetic!!! You are getting exactly what you are asking for! You are putting up with this "abuse" because this girl has a "perfect body". Perhaps someday you will find out that it is the inner beauty and not those "perfect curves"......Eeeee Gads!!!!
2006-12-11 22:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you really want a trophy wife or a real wife that actually cares about you? Seems to me like the trophy gal causes you more grief than that perfect body is worth. That body won't be perfect forever!!! Think about it!
2006-12-11 22:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to have heard the saying "Beauty is skin deep", real beauty lies within....you will learn that someday when you are tired of taking this girls crap. She knows she has you wrapped around her little finger and she will continue to treat you like crap until you set her straight. Dump her and I'll bet she cleans her act up real quick and at the same time you will give her a real reality dose too.
2006-12-11 22:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by shellybear0925 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you must not mind her cheating on you and being mean, if you did you would move on. you have to get your self respect back, and self esteem back. and you can find someone else whos going to give you the respect and who won't cheat. the body part is not everything and as soon as you realize what your missing hopefully you will say good bye to her and find a new one.
2006-12-11 22:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How shallow u decide to be and how much emotional "torture" you decide to take from someone is your decision and no one can change your mind beside YOU. If looks are more important and you have that low of a self esteem (no offense) then stay with her till she dashes you away with Thursdays garbage.If you truly want YOUR heart (not your dick) to be happy consider other avenues...
BEST OF LUCK
2006-12-11 22:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by BuRn Di WiSdOm WeEd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋