I haven't had a GF in a long time and I don't know why. I feel that I am a failure at life. Why is this?
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2006-12-11 14:14:48 · 12 answers · asked by marcus 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
you are not ugly- you need a new look maybe?
2006-12-11 14:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a very handsome young man. You could lose the goofy rag on your head though. As to why you are having problems with girls, are you looking for the wrong type of girl? Maybe look in a different direction or in a different place. I don't know what you find attractive in girls, but be willing to try other types of girls. Also, be yourself, don't try to be something that you are not. People can spot a phony a mile off. If they don't like you as you are, then you don't need them. Remember, it is OK to be your own person and not one of the crowd, that will make you stand out and make you very attractive to girls. My hubby was that type of guy and because of that, I found him to be very attractive. Some people could not figure out what I saw in him, but it was his being different that drew me to him and his great sense of humor. So try to be that different guy and maybe look at that quiet girl in the corner of the room at the party and not the loud, boisterous, "all the guys want her" girl in the room. You may find a very sweet wonderful girl that way.
2006-12-11 22:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your biggest problem with getting a GF would be self-doubt.
Ugly is such a harsh word, you look perfectly fine in your picture and I know alot of girls who would go for you...
Someone once told me you have to like yourself before you can get others to like you. And you have to have (alot) confidence in order to get girls. So I would work on that first.
2006-12-11 22:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Du_Fromage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're cute. To me you kinda look like Ne-yo. Maybe girls are shy around you. You probably have to make the first move. Confidence is the key. Good luck!
2006-12-11 23:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt its your looks that prevent you from getting a girlfriend. Youre quite attractive in my opinion. maybe you just arent connecting with any of the ladies you know. Try expanding your horizons, you should have no trouble finding someone.
2006-12-11 22:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chill son, you don't look ugly. You probably aren't connecting with the girls like you use to. And aren't you suppose to ask the girl out? Maybe you should ask a girl who you like out and see how she reacts, becuz in my opinion you ain't ugly.
2006-12-13 21:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't look ugly, seriously. Well, I have to ask you a question. Do you take the initiative to ask girls out or do you wait for them to ask you? Girls like guys who take initiative and have confidence in themselves. =D
2006-12-11 23:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by christina_160706 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God has a time for every thing
2006-12-11 22:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
lose the earing and doooo rag. girls aren't everything man. just relax and be you!
2006-12-11 22:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by Starry Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope. you look yummy! wanna hang out sometime *wink*wink*nudge*nudge*?
2006-12-11 23:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋