my best friend lies to me sometime sand when i get mad she be like im sorry and all that other ****...well she doesnt lie but like when something good or bad happens im THE LAST ONE TO FIND OUT!!!then she is like im sorry i couldnt call u or some other exuse......now she got a boyfriend and he comes first in evrything and im last but she is the first one to know everything ....like i said he is ugly she went and told him now his hating ,e and cussing me and when i told her why u told him she said it wasnt me.....she is my best friend and i want her to be my best friend but what should i do even thought im mad at her........i tryed to talk but i just cant?
2006-12-11 14:10:37 · 4 answers · asked by Me 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well u should tell her how u feel and if she doesn't accepts it then maybe she isn't a real friend. When u tell her and she does the same thing find a new best friend. And if u think she chooses her boyfriend over u then u should let her know that boyfriend come and go but bestfriends stay forever and if she doesn't get that then she will see will see what happens when he leaves her and have no one and and she will remember what u said.
2006-12-11 14:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by carnellbabygirl_4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i have had the same situation!!!! I asked my friend why she was doing that and she said "i didn't!" so i said ok wutever maybe someone else did then it happened about what 4 more times so i said you know trust is a big issue in friendship and if you want to be friends with me which i want to be friends with you then we need to be able to trust each other! I cant have a best friend who goes around telling everyone everything....please i need to know if i can trust u. You need to be able to keep a secret. I told my friend that i hated this one person then they told that person and i was poed!! so just be really careful what you tell her maybe make her jealous some how.....then be like i cant tell u unless u swear over ur dead body not to tell ne one and if u do then i will tell everyone ur a liar!! lol just be reely careful around this kid. She might be having problems of her own and is taking it out on you!
2006-12-11 22:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man that sucks... I really have no idea what you should do in that situation. Maybe you should try to let it blow over, I'm guessing that wont solve things but just wait it over. Wait until you aren't so angry at her then try and talk it over. It sounds to me that you used to be great friends, so don't let some problem like this ruin it. I Hope this helps
2006-12-11 22:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mattimos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gosh ... so I'm not alone!!yeah my friend did the same thing to me,i just backed off,gave her some space, and left her n her bf alone.maybe if you do the same,she'll come running,cause she'll realise that she no one else puts up with all her shi* ... so just leave her alone,and if she doesnt come around,i suggest that u make new friends,better ones that'll treat you right .. good luk =] and keep smiling
2006-12-11 22:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by janie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋