2006-12-11 13:55:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well the Children is living with his parents and she is the one who divorced him when he was unemployed, I love the children and I have no problem with him taking care of the children but when he tell her that it seems that me and my Children is not very important especially since my children is not his .
2006-12-11 14:14:24 · update #1
Be glad that he cares so much about his children. When he is talking to his ex he is trying to get the point across that as far as his relationship with her is concerned all he cares about is the kids. Telling her about how much he cares about you does no good.
2006-12-11 14:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Big D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So are you saying your kids are equally important to you as his kids? I don't buy that for a second. Put yourself in his shoes for a minute. If you were in a situation where you had to choose between your biological kids or his kids by marriage, you know who you'd favor.
Hey, look at it this way; the more he loves his kids, the more he is capable of loving yours; if he didn't give a rip, then you KNOW your kids wouldn't mean a thing to him.
Divorce doesn't always mean the end of a relationship, especially when kids are involved. I think you may be more worried that his love for his kids means he still has a commitment to the prior relationship that you can't be a part of, and on some level, that is the unfortunate but unavoidable truth of the matter.
2006-12-11 22:18:49 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tough one ,i don't know if i can put it correctly. you and he should be as one which makes his kids your top priority and your kids his top priority and all the kids top priority for you both. together as one in a real relationship all things become equal. did i say that right, so stop looking like you are jealous of his feelings for his kids as long as he shares these feeling across the board and you do also. you have to answer that , what do you see or know that we can not because we are not there. stand by your man if he is your man and you are his woman.
2006-12-12 00:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by looken4answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no i think your misunderstanding how he means it to be with his ex wife. another words he has nothing else in common with her its over between those two he's married to you now. and his only priority is those children he does have with his first wife. Thats all he meant meaning he is there for them and they are his priority not her.
2006-12-11 22:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a parents instinct to take care of his own...especially since they are not living with either parent....so I can see where he is coming from_
2006-12-11 22:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are. you knew that when you met him.
dont take it personal, it just needs to be that way, because if it wasnt... the kids would suffer.
2006-12-11 22:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Yvette B yvetteb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont know in what context
2006-12-11 21:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋