and why your mother doesn't care or even remember you exist when she gets married with a F*cking B*stard Jack*ss
2006-12-11 13:14:29 · 16 answers · asked by solegeniousreject 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because someone is letting that stepparent do/say what ever they want...just because they are the grown up. no one is born knowing how to be a good parent, but they seem to think they are F'n experts...
because they are such f'n jo's and thats why they were alone in the first place...'cause no one wanted their azz.
because talking to them (tried hundreds of times) does no good, for they are 'always right' and the 'adult'. some people you just cant talk to or reason with.
thats why.
but with that all said, your mom still loves you, and will one day see the light. believe me.
2006-12-11 13:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Yvette B yvetteb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here. I think it's because the mother found someone and maybe she didn't think she would and then she spends all her time hanging on to the guy thinks he is the best thing ever it's crazy. Stepparents think that they are better and act like the child is soo immature and like they don't care at all in some cases. It just sucks.
2006-12-11 21:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by KE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because people have children for stupid reasons and then get married to someone new and that step parent isn't actually a parent at all, but some guy who's ******* your mom. Just remember, it's your life and it will be out of their control as soon as you turn 18. Hopefully, it will be in your control though and you go off to college or do something worthwhile. Good luck!
2006-12-11 21:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It stinks, but she did get married, and another man to obey!
Although she should not have forgotton about you, and keep you in her life.
YOu are so angry, and frustrated, and you don't understand a new family has been created, and feeling neglected by not being the centered of her life. That's happens unfortunately, but as a woman, married, she must put her husband first, to keep the marriage strong,then she can put her children 2nd place.
Now you are under another man's household, his rules, and his ways, and that's how it is, but you have your other options, of living with your dad too.
Divorce stinks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The kids gets the worse end of the stick, by being put off, or even replaced by new babies in the famiy, and they are not being heard, just ignored.
I am sorry that you have to go through this, but talk to your mom, and make sure that you are still in her heart forever!
No moms ever forgets any of their babies!
It might be your attitude, that you might have being ignored, and avoided.
Hang in there!
2006-12-11 21:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you, but it's not my Mom and her new husband, it's my Dad and his haggy wife (she is not new, she has been around for about 22 years). But he did the same thing to me as you are saying your mom did to you. I can't say it will get better, because in my situation, it didn't and it definitely won't. But all I can say is just try to keep the peace (for the sake of you and your moms relationship.) for as long as you can and maybe one of these days she will realize what she has done to you, and come around. Or maybe ask her to set aside some time for the two of you to talk alone and discuss the problems you are having. Until then, if the two of you continue to do whatever you are doing then it will not get any better any time soon. Be strong and calm, hopefully things will get better for you!
2006-12-11 21:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by melody g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all stepparents are not mf and b__stards,your mother is putting your new stepfather before you,and that's wrong,
obviously you don't like your stepfather,but you don't say why you don't like him,try to talk to your mother,if things get too bad then go stay with another family mbr good luck:)
2006-12-11 21:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, they just get selfish and this will return to your favor when you turn 18 or more. Trust me, you won't care too much about their relationship and you will live your own life. By that time, they will be eager to get into your life. I'm assuming you are 18 or younger.
2006-12-11 21:19:26 · answer #7 · answered by wat~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not the step-parent who has the problem it's your mother.
She's supposed to be your mother...and you're supposed to be first in her life no matter who she's married to.
You're upset with the wrong person.
2006-12-11 21:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Mother still loves you! Mother's never stop loving their son's!
2006-12-11 21:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I, speaking from first-hand knowledge, can tell you your problem. You are a immature brat who wants everything to go their way and if it doesn't, you instantly turn on your step-parent. I dealt with two just like you and they never ever thanked me for anything I did for them.
2006-12-11 21:24:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋