Ok, well this question is extremely embarassing to me but I just really need to know. I dont wanna get to graphic to turn anyone away, but I've heard so many different answers and I'd really like 1 straight answer.
So basically, knowing my family gene, I feel very self concious about my penis and I always thought I was small. However I was also pretty fat (which I heard makes it seem smaller because there is alot of fat surrounding the area). Now, I did loose alot of weight but I'm still about 15-20 lbs overweight and I still feel that I'm not good enough.
Obviously I know that not everyone can be a pornstar lol. But I just really wanna know, and I'm gonna be straightforward...I turned 16 about 5 months ago and I'm about 6in. and I wanna know how long I have left to grow? How much would it normally grow? And I'd also like to know what age puberty ends at?
This is uncomfortable fo me to ask, so please, I just need an honest answer and no stupid immature people coming up.
Thank you!
2006-12-11 12:53:48 · 21 answers · asked by John 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Wow. Um...I cant believe how many responses I got and I just wanna say thanks. I cant really choose a best answer cuz they were all good and alot of you really helped me feel less self concious about myself. lol
Thank you!
2006-12-11 14:41:53 · update #1
Al that matters is that you have enough to get the job done. Any more is just a bones..you'll do fine.. *
2006-12-11 13:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by Les Gramps 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know you are absolutely normal for an adult male, you will probably not grow any more down there but that's okay because you're on the better side of average.
Men are the only ones preoccupied with length, I don't know why as all women know it's WIDTH not LENGTH that is especially sexually stimulating.
Puberty stops at different ages just like it begins that way. Most men fully end puberty between 17 and 20. You're right on track where you're supposed to be.
Tips : Lose the extra 15 pounds you were talking about, pay attention to ab exercises as hard abs will help you "hang" better, and keep yourself trim and neat. Don't shave by all means! Just trim in a fashion that looks natural, the shorter the hair, the more your penis can be seen and the bigger it appears.
2006-12-11 13:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by *~*AlexisClaire*~* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel embarrassed, we have all thought and pondered whether we were big enough. I'm fifteen, and i've had the same questions. Basically you are over the average adult male length. So don't worry. You are sixteen, and puberty may still be going on. You won't really know until you are at least 21 if your big enough. In most cases puberty ends at 21, it varies amongst people. I have some fat in my abdomen but i'm generally skinny everwhere else. My question is: how much do you weigh? generally around your age most weights vary. Like I said, the average male's penis size is around five inches. Don't worry. If a girl won't date you because she wants a guy with a huge penis, then you just got lucky because she is selfish and only into looks. Plus you are still kinda young and you shouldn't really worry about what girls will think. But if you are sexually active, meaning you do have sex, then find someone who won't judge you on your size. Plus its how you can get a girl to orgasm that matters. If you can get her to her climax then it doesn't matter if you penis size is 3 inches. Don't worry, you are above the average. My penis is smaller than that and I don't worry about it. I'm more worry about my being weak and having fat around my stomach. If you are worried about your weight also, I would suggest doing some cardio. I'm getting a treadmill in 2 weeks, so i'll be working hard.
2006-12-11 13:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be embarassed. It's a good question and asked well. You are young and may continue to grow in all areas for another 3-4 yrs. Most boys do not stop growing and filling out until they are 18 -21 in age. So, you have time to work on everything. You are average. That means most men are the same size. So, don't worry. It's not as important as men tend to make it. It's really the person you are and as far as sex and real good women go, it's plenty . If you love her and please her that is the most important part of a good relationship. If someone trys to use that as an excuse for anything they have a problem, not you. So, don't be ashamed or feel like you are anything but as good as and better than most guys. OK?
2006-12-11 13:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
5-1/2 inches is normal with normal being described as 5 to 6 inches. You will likely have another year to year and a half of puberty. As you lose weight you will notice that it will become longer and thicker in appearance. A good measure of how large you will be will be the size of your father or brothers penis and scrotum.
Most of all, it is important to understand that size does not determine the satisfaction obtained by your partner or by you. You will learn to be satisfying and pleasing to your partner if you learn to be patient, gentle, loving partner with lots of touching, caressing, feeling, etc. Rough sex is definitely out whether you are 3 inches or 12 inches. You have a long life ahead of you to enjoy sex and the benefits. Don't rush it. Good luck!
2006-12-11 13:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by Donald W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pay no attention to stupid people trying to lower your self esteem. Everyone's different but since you are 16 (and especially if you entered puberty a little later) you could have the chance of continuing to develop until you are 18-ish. Six inches is not to worry, either, I believe that is the average penis size for males depending on different statistics I have heard. And if you are worried about when it comes time for s e x with females, six inches is plenty long enough to satisfy a woman. so please don't worry too much about this. :)
2006-12-11 13:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by Gummy wurm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear John! I am a mature woman and I know what I am talking about. You are a good size already and if you will grow more it will be a bonus. My husband is that size and we have a very good
sex life. I asked him about the puberty but he doesn't remember.
If man is too big, it's not good for a women believe me!You are
an average size which most of the men are. And don't listen to
stupid people. Best wishes to you!!!
2006-12-11 13:16:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL!! ( Ok if I laugh?) Reason why I laugh is because every guy feels that way at age 16. First of all lose that extra 15 pounds and "also" I bet you are measuring your manhood wrong so don't sweat it. Here's something you must know......If you date and make it with a lady who's about 115 pounds she will say "OH Henry!!!!" If the woman is a big lady ( 250 pounds ) she will say "Are you In???" ......So you see one can have a monster manhood and be s big as King kong but if you date a big woman she will never say it is big enough so stay with the small ladies. Also learn how to romance.....talk....talk....and talk smooth.....Make your smooth moves and you will have them knocking on your doors. Remember this....Have good breath......Have clean teeth.....don't fart.........Don't use swear words.....Call her daddy "Sir".....Tell her mother how good her cooking is......If the father cooks then tell him how good it is....Offer to mow the grass "OR" shovel the snow and I promise you "YOU" will be 95% there as far as making a lady satified.
2006-12-11 13:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is having sex with u he is not thinking about ur breast size. It's kewl if ur nipples get hard. But any more than a mouthfull is just a waste of breast neway. The big problem is 4 the guy if he is small. if ya really wanna know about that IM me.
2016-03-29 03:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. The way you were brought into this planet is the way you are. That's what makes you "you". Don't try anything stupid like growing pills because it will probably cause harm to your body.
Don't be to worried about that organ. It's nothing to be ashamed of. You were born with it to re-produce, and that's what it's for, no matter the size.
Hope that helped.
2006-12-11 12:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by unrestedmind 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you worry about, your dick is already big... all women will like it. On the time thing, there is no way for anyone to know how much your penis will grow... eventually, you'll understand that what is important is how to use it and not how big it is; but just for the record, it feel good to know that you are above average.
2006-12-11 14:38:34 · answer #11 · answered by david 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋