Ok so my best friend is pretty much "in love" with this guy, she's liked him since last summer...and I'm pretty sure last summer he was just using her. But now she still likes him, and I try to tell her that she's gonna get hurt, because he isn't a good guy and he IS just using her!! Idk what to do because every time I do that she gets mad...PLEASE help!!
2006-12-11 12:51:59 · 4 answers · asked by A.J. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hmm i know what u mean..i went through a same situation..i tried to help my fren..but..it went all wrong..she hated me for it..infact she thought i was jelous over her..
what i did was...i found concrete evidence that he is a bad guy..well i manage to find another gal he was playing around..and made her confess that..that guy is not good and he only uses gals...
but in your case..i think u need to talk some sense in her.she is in love!!!!!..she will hate u..but u got to do it..prove to her...
u need to prove to her..
try to find something abt him...try to prove it....
help her..or she will be hurt..terribly....
good luck gal..nail that guy down!
i hate guys like that...
2006-12-11 12:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by L_n_C_fReAk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, so are you confuse on what to do or is your friend confuse about that guy? It seems like your the type of person who cares about her friends getting her or not. I think you should probably stand up to her boyfriend and tell him that using her is just unecessary. You should give your friend reasons why she's going to get her and tell her about it when she gets hurt. Tell her to think it through. You should tell your friend that you care about her and her feelings and tell her how you actually feel about her relationship with that guy. If he is using her, explain and show her how he is using her. Ask her on how she feels about that. Ask her to look deep down and ask her to ask herself is she being used and does she like the feeling of that. I'm pretty sure that nobody wants to be used, get tossed aside and get used again. If that doesn't work, find her a new boyfriend that would treat her right and that she does like for sure. good luck.
2006-12-12 18:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by Calibabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've tried telling her, and she won't listen, then I hate to say it but let her get hurt. She will move on, and maybe next time she'll listen to you.
2006-12-11 20:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ali B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats pretty hard... all u can do is prolly just wait for the downfall i guess?
2006-12-11 20:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by seattlepride 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋